Hi Beautifuls! Welcome to ibelieveinloveagain.com. My name is BoYee Sevilla,
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and I am blessed to be a professional Christian mentor for female survivors of child sexual abuse. I teach women how to VALUE themselves through intense spiritual warfare, powerful boundaries, and incredible self-care. There is nothing more important for my mentees than to come to a place where their sense of self-worth becomes restored (because this was what was destroyed by their abusers).
This sense of self-worth can only come from having a strong relationship with God/Jesus Christ, it cannot come from any external source. including family, friends, or even husband. Outside sources cannot provide ongoing, forever, steadfast, perfect love; only God can. Love from others is wonderful, but it is just a bonus to what God can provide. There really is no comparison. Regaining this sense of self-worth is not an option. This is a MUST in order for true healing to take place. Through God's grace and power, 100% healing and restoration is possible. Most of the mentees who come to me are women who have tried countless coaches and therapists already and did not receive the results they were hoping to get. Because I recovered from 8 years of childhood rape and molestation by my stepfather (a serial pedophile), 10 years of additional narcissistic abuse by many boyfriends in my 20's, and witnessed my mother's suicide before my very eyes, my mentees TRUST me to give them the tools and road map to healing from sexual abuse, narcissistic abuse, trauma, and family dysfunction. Many of them tell me, "I trust YOU, BoYee. I couldn't open up to my therapist, but with you, I tell you everything because I know you won't judge me." I cannot tell you how honoring it is to hear this from my mentees and how rewarding it is for me to witness these women go from broken to bold before my very eyes. Because I understand the pain of my mentees and their pain does not scare me away, I am able to provide a safe space for them to heal and give them honest words (sometimes tough love) to help accelerate their healing journey. I am a Christian mentor for female survivors of child sexual abuse. This is the role God has called me to fill, and my aspiration everyday is to BE THE BEST MENTOR IN THE WORLD FOR SURVIVORS OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE. This work is very dear to my heart. |
Fun facts about me:
- I am a worship ballerina (God's Ballerina)!
- I live in Northern California on a 40-acre ranch with chickens!
- I have a sweet husband who I like to call "Sloth" (we are a silly couple)
- I love love love dauchsands! They are so funny-looking!
- I have been a YouTuber since 2013!
If you are a survivor of child sexual abuse and you are ready to heal and to thrive, feel free to book a Free Clarity Call with me.
- I am a worship ballerina (God's Ballerina)!
- I live in Northern California on a 40-acre ranch with chickens!
- I have a sweet husband who I like to call "Sloth" (we are a silly couple)
- I love love love dauchsands! They are so funny-looking!
- I have been a YouTuber since 2013!
If you are a survivor of child sexual abuse and you are ready to heal and to thrive, feel free to book a Free Clarity Call with me.
My life is full of LOVE and HAPPINESS now (not full of narcissistic, abusive, energy-vampires like before)!!! I feel so blessed! You can have the same!
“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.” - Romans 8:28
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It was an honor for me to be featured on the @Tell Somebody Movement by founder, Aleesha Barlow, on April 13, 2020. To read my story, scroll down below. However, please be aware that my story may contain triggering details. Please practice self-care if you feel triggered.
⚠️⚠️ The following contains graphic description of child sexual abuse ⚠️⚠️
⚠️⚠️ The following contains graphic description of child sexual abuse ⚠️⚠️
Tell Somebody
· April 13 , 2020 ·
My stepfather molested and raped me for 8 years from age 11-19. He was a serial pedophile. He destroyed many families before he got to mine. My mother was his sixth wife (we did not know this at the time).
My name is BoYee (formerly known as Elena), and I was born and raised in Sacramento, California. My stepfather was an expert manipulator. He wasn’t only able to convince everyone around him that he was a good father, he also convinced the California court system to grant him adoption of my younger brother and I, and convinced the courts to take my mother’s parental rights away. After he kicked our mother out of our house, he had full reign to molest and rape me.
My life felt like a living nightmare, but on the outside no one could tell anything was wrong because I glued a smile on my face, and dissociated from my pain to survive. He had a sick fantasy of wanting me to initiate sex with him, which I refused to do. When he got stressed out, he would hemorrhage and cough up tons of blood (because he had Hepatitis C) and he would blame me. He would tell me that I was selfish and cruel for not “taking care” of his needs as a man.
I would feel terrible watching him bleed and suffer like that. In tears, I would tell him “sorry” but he would say sorry was not enough, that I had to perform a sensual dance for him. So as a little girl, I would put on women’s lingerie, make-up (he taught me how to do my make-up), and his favorite perfume (Rapture by Victoria’s Secret). Every time I had to do this, my soul would die a little bit more.
I was a ballerina, and he thoroughly exploited my gift from God. Before I would even get to the end of the song, dancing for him, he would take me to his room and proceed to rape me. At age 19, I found the courage to run away. My boyfriend at the time encouraged me to tell the authorities. I did. My stepfather went to prison, and passed away a few years later.
At age 28, I was given faith. Praise God! Since Jesus came into my life, I went through an excruciatingly painful period of TRUE HEALING. Now I am on the other side with only loving and supportive people in my life. I have an amazing God, an amazing husband, amazing family, amazing friends, amazing clients, and amazing mentors. I am beyond blessed!!
I have now dedicated the rest of my life to coach other women on how to have POWERFUL BOUNDARIES to keep loving people in and toxic people out, once and for all. I am a YouTuber, and the founder of ibelieveinloveagain.com, and God’s Ballerina.
If you are a survivor, please know that healing and thriving is 100% possible for you too. Don’t let the Devil lie to you and convince you there is no such thing as God, family, friends, and romantic love. Love is the REALEST thing on earth. When you believe in love 100% and learn boundaries, boundless love will come to you! #TellSomebody
If you, too, are a survivor of abuse and would like to apply for my "I Believe in Love Again" 3-month mentorship program, please click on the pink button below to schedule a FREE Clarity Call with me! I look forward to talking with you soon!
