Are you ready to have Boundaries for Boundless Love? If so, you came to the right place! Hello Beautiful! My name is BoYee Sevilla, and I am an EFT coach for women who are ready to become powerful Boundary-Setters who are not ashamed to love themselves beyond measure (physically, mentally, financially, spiritually)!
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I thank God for bringing Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) into my life so casually one evening during a regular appointment with my therapist . I thought this was just going to be another tool I would have in my toolbox, but little did I know at the time, it was going to be the GREATEST TOOL I had ever come across to help dissolve the trauma, fears, blocks, and limiting beliefs I had acquired throughout my life of trauma.
I am a survivor 8 years of childhood rape and molestation, severe emotional abuse, and financial abuse by my stepfather (a serial pedophile), 10 years of self-inflicted pain and suffering through my poor choices in boyfriend-girlfriend relationships in my 20's, and witnessing of my mother's suicide before my very eyes at age 28. My past did not kill me. It only made me relentless to do whatever it took to heal and to thrive. I spent nearly $100,000 on coaches, mentors, therapists, and programs to help "deprogram" my negative beliefs and instill new empowering ones, but nothing helped as effectively and quickly as EFT. Before I knew about EFT, it would take me weeks, months, and sometimes years to calm down from a trigger. After learning EFT, it would literally take me mere minutes or even seconds to completely calm down from a level 10 (the worst) trigger to a level 0 (no trigger at all). |
I could not believe the emotional freedom I was feeling from such an easy-to-apply technique. After doing more research, I realized that EFT has been scientifically proven to heal war veterans and survivors of sexual abuse from PTSD. No wonder why EFT works so brilliantly on me! I needed a technique that was created to help a survivor of trauma. Since discovering EFT and becoming a Christian EFT practitioner, I have developed my own accelerated EFT method to help survivors of trauma to thrive. I specifically teach my clients how to have Boundaries for Boundless Love (from God and self). Learn more about my I Believe In Love Again Mentorship Program here.
A glimpse into my life!
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An honor being featured on other platforms!
It was an honor for me to be featured on the @Tell Somebody Movement by founder, Aleesha Barlow, on April 13, 2020. To read my story, scroll down below. However, please be aware that my story may contain triggering details. Please practice self-care if you feel triggered.
⚠️⚠️ The following contains graphic description of child sexual abuse ⚠️⚠️
⚠️⚠️ The following contains graphic description of child sexual abuse ⚠️⚠️
Tell Somebody
· April 13 , 2020 ·
My stepfather molested and raped me for 8 years from age 11-19. He was a serial pedophile. He destroyed many families before he got to mine. My mother was his sixth wife (we did not know this at the time).
My name is BoYee (formerly known as Elena), and I was born and raised in Sacramento, California. My stepfather was an expert manipulator. He wasn’t only able to convince everyone around him that he was a good father, he also convinced the California court system to grant him adoption of my younger brother and I, and convinced the courts to take my mother’s parental rights away. After he kicked our mother out of our house, he had full reign to molest and rape me.
My life felt like a living nightmare, but on the outside no one could tell anything was wrong because I glued a smile on my face, and dissociated from my pain to survive. He had a sick fantasy of wanting me to initiate sex with him, which I refused to do. When he got stressed out, he would hemorrhage and cough up tons of blood (because he had Hepatitis C) and he would blame me. He would tell me that I was selfish and cruel for not “taking care” of his needs as a man.
I would feel terrible watching him bleed and suffer like that. In tears, I would tell him “sorry” but he would say sorry was not enough, that I had to perform a sensual dance for him. So as a little girl, I would put on women’s lingerie, make-up (he taught me how to do my make-up), and his favorite perfume (Rapture by Victoria’s Secret). Every time I had to do this, my soul would die a little bit more.
I was a ballerina, and he thoroughly exploited my gift from God. Before I would even get to the end of the song, dancing for him, he would take me to his room and proceed to rape me. At age 19, I found the courage to run away. My boyfriend at the time encouraged me to tell the authorities. I did. My stepfather went to prison, and passed away a few years later.
At age 28, I was given faith. Praise God! Since Jesus came into my life, I went through an excruciatingly painful period of TRUE HEALING. Now I am on the other side with only loving and supportive people in my life. I have an amazing God, an amazing husband, amazing family, amazing friends, amazing clients, and amazing mentors. I am beyond blessed!!
I have now dedicated the rest of my life to coach other women on how to have POWERFUL BOUNDARIES to keep loving people in and toxic people out, once and for all. I am a YouTuber, and the founder of ibelieveinloveagain.com, and God’s Ballerina.
If you are a survivor, please know that healing and thriving is 100% possible for you too. Don’t let the Devil lie to you and convince you there is no such thing as God, family, friends, and romantic love. Love is the REALEST thing on earth. When you believe in love 100% and learn boundaries, boundless love will come to you! #TellSomebody
If you are ready to become a powerful Boundary-Setter and would like to apply for my "I Believe in Love Again" 3-month coaching program, schedule a FREE Clarity Call with me (space is limited), so if you see an opening, book it! Lots of love!
