"If someone like me can learn to TREASURE myself, so can you!" -BoYee Sevilla
INTERVIEW WITH BOYEE TO ANSWER FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT HER ULTIMATE COACHING PROGRAM FOR WOMEN WHO WANT TO HAVE IT ALL
What is the name of your coaching program?
I AM TREASURE program
What is the name of the system you use to help your clients learn how to treasure themselves?
7 Self-Care Secrets For Success system
Can you explain how self-care is related to success?
First of all, let me define what "success" is to me. To me, success on earth is living the "good life" which consist of 4 pillars - Health, Wealth, Love, and Joy. If any one of these pillars is missing, I can promise you, life doesn't feel so grand.
For example, if you were a millionaire, but you are on a respiratory machine in the hospital, it is hard to enjoy your riches at that point. Having HEALTH is very important. If you had the healthiest body in the world, but attracted only toxic relationships, that wouldn't feel so good either. The LOVE pillar is important as well. If you have countless followers and "likes" on your posts, but you suffer from depression and feel empty inside, this shows the importance of having the JOY pillar. What if you had all the love in the world for your child, but cannot afford food and shelter for your child? WEALTH is important.
All the pillars are significant to me. Success is having health, wealth, love, and joy!
And what I have found from coaching and teaching thousands of survivors is that having self-care is the GATEWAY to having more success in life. When self-care is lacking, one's Health, Wealth, Love, and Joy pillars come crashing down. Self-care is a buzz word that has been tossed around for years now, but as simple as it may seem, having a FOUNDATION of consistent and dedicated SELF-CARE is what makes the difference is someone is successful or not.
For example, if you were a millionaire, but you are on a respiratory machine in the hospital, it is hard to enjoy your riches at that point. Having HEALTH is very important. If you had the healthiest body in the world, but attracted only toxic relationships, that wouldn't feel so good either. The LOVE pillar is important as well. If you have countless followers and "likes" on your posts, but you suffer from depression and feel empty inside, this shows the importance of having the JOY pillar. What if you had all the love in the world for your child, but cannot afford food and shelter for your child? WEALTH is important.
All the pillars are significant to me. Success is having health, wealth, love, and joy!
And what I have found from coaching and teaching thousands of survivors is that having self-care is the GATEWAY to having more success in life. When self-care is lacking, one's Health, Wealth, Love, and Joy pillars come crashing down. Self-care is a buzz word that has been tossed around for years now, but as simple as it may seem, having a FOUNDATION of consistent and dedicated SELF-CARE is what makes the difference is someone is successful or not.
What does your life look like, BoYee? Give me a snapshot.
I get to live a VERY BLESSED life LIVING MY DREAMS!
Some of the amazing dreams I am living today:
1) I get to impact and coach powerful survivors to stop being victims and do whatever it take to HAVE IT ALL!
2) I am blessed with HEALTH, WEALTH, LOVE, and JOY and these pillars continue to grow!
3) I have a strong foundation of daily SELF-CARE and it feels INCREDIBLE to treasure myself thoroughly!
4) I have beautiful relationships with my husband, family, and friends
5) I have the best clients and the best mentors in the world!
6) I am a Mommy to two kittens (baby NightLight and baby BubbleGumToes) and three chickens
7) I get to enjoy living on a 40-acre ranch with sweet neighbors
8) I get to dance ballet worship dance at conferences and churches all around the country
9) I get to feel FULFILLED knowing that I am doing what I was created to do - IMPACT WOMEN TO HAVE IT ALL!
10) Overall, I am proud to be a SELF-CARE QUEEN and I believe in getting 2-hour massages a week - it's MANDATORY for me!
Some of the amazing dreams I am living today:
1) I get to impact and coach powerful survivors to stop being victims and do whatever it take to HAVE IT ALL!
2) I am blessed with HEALTH, WEALTH, LOVE, and JOY and these pillars continue to grow!
3) I have a strong foundation of daily SELF-CARE and it feels INCREDIBLE to treasure myself thoroughly!
4) I have beautiful relationships with my husband, family, and friends
5) I have the best clients and the best mentors in the world!
6) I am a Mommy to two kittens (baby NightLight and baby BubbleGumToes) and three chickens
7) I get to enjoy living on a 40-acre ranch with sweet neighbors
8) I get to dance ballet worship dance at conferences and churches all around the country
9) I get to feel FULFILLED knowing that I am doing what I was created to do - IMPACT WOMEN TO HAVE IT ALL!
10) Overall, I am proud to be a SELF-CARE QUEEN and I believe in getting 2-hour massages a week - it's MANDATORY for me!
Did your life always look like this, BoYee?
Most certainly not.
What did your life used to look like? And how did you become the "I AM TREASURE: 7 Self-Care Secrets For Success" coach?
Although my life looks magical now and I am a SELF-CARE QUEEN, my life did not always look this way.
I was raped over 600 times as a child by a serial pedophile. He had plans to marry me; I saw no way out. I thought I would have to live this nightmare for the rest of my life. When he threatened to kill me because he found out I had a boyfriend, I found the courage to run away from home at age 19.
Ages 20-21 was one of the hardest chapters of my life. During this time, I developed a sense of worthlessness and had suicidal ideation. I did not feel worthy of even breathing in oxygen at times because in my mind, I felt other plants, animals, and human beings were more worthy of oxygen than I was and I didn't want to take any away from them.
Back then, self-care was the LAST THING on my mind. I did not care about my self. I would overeat (especially at fast food restaurants) to numb my feelings. I developed acne all over my face and back and became overweight. I developed depression and social-anxiety. I was petrified to leave the house and would sweat bullets whenever I had to go out occasionally. I felt ugly. I dressed in a way that did not draw any attention towards me. I wanted to be invisible.
Then one day as I was contemplating ending my life yet again, I knew deep in my heart that I was too scared to end my life because I was scared of potential pain. And so I told myself I had to get off the fence, and right then and there, I made the decision to LIVE.
I had no idea how I was going to make myself feel better, but I just took one step forward at a time, and slowly started to feel better.
I started with very basic fitness classes and started to walk around the block. I got back into ballet, which made me strong and flexible again. I got into detoxing, eating cleaner, and experimented with eating less and less meat. To my surprise, I felt much better. Then I learned about doing short fasts and enemas in my mid-twenties, which took my health to the next level. My acne had cleared and my energy went through the roof.
In my late twenties, I discovered skin care secrets that took blemishes off my face and made my skin tighter and glow. I didn't know this was possible as I got older. Although my body seemed to be getting healthier, my mind and spirit were not. I developed a big ego and I truly thought that I was a "goddess." I gave myself all the glory and I thought I did not need a god because I believed I was my own God. I believed I was my own Healer. I had a lot of pride and my heart was ugly.
Things took a dive pretty rapidly. I developed a lump in my left ankle that caused so much nerve pain at time, I would collapse to the floor and cry in pain. I was on crutches for a year because it hurt to put weight on my left leg. I stopped dancing. I couldn't even walk on both feet. I had to drive in those electric carts whenever I went grocery shopping. I refused to go to the doctor as well because I believed I could heal myself by myself.
Then when I was 29, I was given the gift of faith in Jesus Christ, the greatest gift in my life. About 10 months later, God gave me a husband who had the intelligence to encourage me to go to the doctor. When I did, they discovered a benign tumor in my left ankle, cut it out, and my ankle healed fast. I had no more pain, and I no longer needed the crutches. From this experience, I learned that there is a place for western health practices, and I don't have to rely on holistic medicine alone. There is a place for both in different circumstances.
Remember the ugliness in my heart, I told you about early? God started to take care of that by teaching me how to FORGIVE people in my life. This is true freedom. When I started to release deep-seated resentments from my heart through God's help, I started to experience true "health." I felt freedom, joy, serenity. And when the body is in a peaceful state, it heals and functions so much better!
God also taught me the POWER OF MY TONGUE. I can speak life or death over myself, over my body. God taught me the MISSING PIECES OF SELF-CARE I did not know about before. Having a healthy body and a great skin-care regime is only a part of self-care. Keeping my mind and spirit healthy and fit are also essential parts of self-care.
After I was given the gift of faith, I noticed that I was in the healthiest state I had ever been in (physically, mentally, and spiritually). I stopped being a people-pleaser, I learned healthy boundaries, I put myself first with self-care, and now I get to teach others how to have the same! If I can learn how to love myself and become a Self-Care Queen after experiencing 8 years of sexual abuse, then so can you!
God gave me a vision to help women to become his daughters become "Self-Care Queens" by teaching the 7 Self-Care skills:
These skills address THREE LAYERS of care for ourselves - our spiritual self, our temple bodies, and our environment.
I am passionate about helping my clients become Self-Care Queens because self-care is the GATEWAY to more health, wealth, love, and joy in one's life! My vision is to help millions of women around the world to become Self-Care Queens so they can live THE GOOD LIFE .
I was raped over 600 times as a child by a serial pedophile. He had plans to marry me; I saw no way out. I thought I would have to live this nightmare for the rest of my life. When he threatened to kill me because he found out I had a boyfriend, I found the courage to run away from home at age 19.
Ages 20-21 was one of the hardest chapters of my life. During this time, I developed a sense of worthlessness and had suicidal ideation. I did not feel worthy of even breathing in oxygen at times because in my mind, I felt other plants, animals, and human beings were more worthy of oxygen than I was and I didn't want to take any away from them.
Back then, self-care was the LAST THING on my mind. I did not care about my self. I would overeat (especially at fast food restaurants) to numb my feelings. I developed acne all over my face and back and became overweight. I developed depression and social-anxiety. I was petrified to leave the house and would sweat bullets whenever I had to go out occasionally. I felt ugly. I dressed in a way that did not draw any attention towards me. I wanted to be invisible.
Then one day as I was contemplating ending my life yet again, I knew deep in my heart that I was too scared to end my life because I was scared of potential pain. And so I told myself I had to get off the fence, and right then and there, I made the decision to LIVE.
I had no idea how I was going to make myself feel better, but I just took one step forward at a time, and slowly started to feel better.
I started with very basic fitness classes and started to walk around the block. I got back into ballet, which made me strong and flexible again. I got into detoxing, eating cleaner, and experimented with eating less and less meat. To my surprise, I felt much better. Then I learned about doing short fasts and enemas in my mid-twenties, which took my health to the next level. My acne had cleared and my energy went through the roof.
In my late twenties, I discovered skin care secrets that took blemishes off my face and made my skin tighter and glow. I didn't know this was possible as I got older. Although my body seemed to be getting healthier, my mind and spirit were not. I developed a big ego and I truly thought that I was a "goddess." I gave myself all the glory and I thought I did not need a god because I believed I was my own God. I believed I was my own Healer. I had a lot of pride and my heart was ugly.
Things took a dive pretty rapidly. I developed a lump in my left ankle that caused so much nerve pain at time, I would collapse to the floor and cry in pain. I was on crutches for a year because it hurt to put weight on my left leg. I stopped dancing. I couldn't even walk on both feet. I had to drive in those electric carts whenever I went grocery shopping. I refused to go to the doctor as well because I believed I could heal myself by myself.
Then when I was 29, I was given the gift of faith in Jesus Christ, the greatest gift in my life. About 10 months later, God gave me a husband who had the intelligence to encourage me to go to the doctor. When I did, they discovered a benign tumor in my left ankle, cut it out, and my ankle healed fast. I had no more pain, and I no longer needed the crutches. From this experience, I learned that there is a place for western health practices, and I don't have to rely on holistic medicine alone. There is a place for both in different circumstances.
Remember the ugliness in my heart, I told you about early? God started to take care of that by teaching me how to FORGIVE people in my life. This is true freedom. When I started to release deep-seated resentments from my heart through God's help, I started to experience true "health." I felt freedom, joy, serenity. And when the body is in a peaceful state, it heals and functions so much better!
God also taught me the POWER OF MY TONGUE. I can speak life or death over myself, over my body. God taught me the MISSING PIECES OF SELF-CARE I did not know about before. Having a healthy body and a great skin-care regime is only a part of self-care. Keeping my mind and spirit healthy and fit are also essential parts of self-care.
After I was given the gift of faith, I noticed that I was in the healthiest state I had ever been in (physically, mentally, and spiritually). I stopped being a people-pleaser, I learned healthy boundaries, I put myself first with self-care, and now I get to teach others how to have the same! If I can learn how to love myself and become a Self-Care Queen after experiencing 8 years of sexual abuse, then so can you!
God gave me a vision to help women to become his daughters become "Self-Care Queens" by teaching the 7 Self-Care skills:
- Spiritual Fitness
- Sweep Out the Gunk!
- Slow Stretch
- Skin that Glows
- Schedule It In
- Satisfying Space
- Seek Until You Find
These skills address THREE LAYERS of care for ourselves - our spiritual self, our temple bodies, and our environment.
I am passionate about helping my clients become Self-Care Queens because self-care is the GATEWAY to more health, wealth, love, and joy in one's life! My vision is to help millions of women around the world to become Self-Care Queens so they can live THE GOOD LIFE .
Who are your clients?
I work with women, 18 and over. My clients often include (but are not limited to):
- Women who are ready to learn how to TREASURE THEMSELVES NOW
- High-achieving women; women who expect excellence from themselves
- Go-getter women; ambitious women
- Women who want to have it all - HEALTH, WEALTH, LOVE, JOY
- Women who don't want to be like the masses; women who want to live GOD'S BEST!
- Women who love God!
- Women who have already tried many therapists and coaches, but haven't gotten the breakthrough they are looking for yet
- Women with big visions; women who KNOW they have a big purpose and if they fail to step into their calling, they will regret this forever
- Women who are very coachable; women who love to learn and grow!
- Women who are into self-development
What makes you different from other coaches?
From the words of one of my clients. She says, "BoYee, you are the best mentor in the world because of what you have overcome. I have heard many renowned coaches speak on stages, but none of them compare to you because not one of them has said to me that they have overcome 8 years of childhood rape. I tell everyone that I have the best coach in the world!"
This dear client of mine is so sweet and so appreciative; it was such a pleasure for me to work with her. Please see my Testimonials Page if you'd like to read more reviews.
But to answer your question, what makes me different than other coaches is probably my long history of severe abuse. Many people tell me they are amazed that not only am I not a drug addict, a prostitute, or dead (which unfortunately, is a common outcome for people who have gone through such trials), but I am alive and well, joyfully living my dreams!
My clients tell me they trust me because they know I have gone through the FIRE, and because I am so open about my story with the world, they feel comfortable opening up to me without feeling fear of being judged. They often tell me I help them way more than their therapist ever did.
I am passionate about rebuking that unworthiness spirit out of you and instilling an unshakable sense of worth in you so that you will start living your BEST LIFE!!
I don’t beat around the bush or waste time. I am known for giving my clients invaluable information that helps them transform deeply. I am gentle but I also add a healthy dose of "tough love" when necessary. You will learn the TRUTH about what’s been standing in the way of you having SELF-CARE FOR SUCCESS NOW and how to have HEALTH, WEALTH, LOVE, AND JOY in record time. It is time to STOP putting yourself last, STOP putting yourself down, and STOP putting your dreams in the grave. It is time to put yourself FIRST and HAVE IT ALL!
This dear client of mine is so sweet and so appreciative; it was such a pleasure for me to work with her. Please see my Testimonials Page if you'd like to read more reviews.
But to answer your question, what makes me different than other coaches is probably my long history of severe abuse. Many people tell me they are amazed that not only am I not a drug addict, a prostitute, or dead (which unfortunately, is a common outcome for people who have gone through such trials), but I am alive and well, joyfully living my dreams!
My clients tell me they trust me because they know I have gone through the FIRE, and because I am so open about my story with the world, they feel comfortable opening up to me without feeling fear of being judged. They often tell me I help them way more than their therapist ever did.
I am passionate about rebuking that unworthiness spirit out of you and instilling an unshakable sense of worth in you so that you will start living your BEST LIFE!!
I don’t beat around the bush or waste time. I am known for giving my clients invaluable information that helps them transform deeply. I am gentle but I also add a healthy dose of "tough love" when necessary. You will learn the TRUTH about what’s been standing in the way of you having SELF-CARE FOR SUCCESS NOW and how to have HEALTH, WEALTH, LOVE, AND JOY in record time. It is time to STOP putting yourself last, STOP putting yourself down, and STOP putting your dreams in the grave. It is time to put yourself FIRST and HAVE IT ALL!
What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?
The I AM TREASURE program was created for women who are DONE with being victims and are 100% ready to PUT THEMSELVES FIRST, PRACTICE A LIFESTYLE OF SELF-CARE, AND ATTRACT MORE HEALTH, WEALTH, LOVE, AND JOY into their lives. This program was created for you to put systems in place so that you will automatically do self-care practices without having to think about them. This program will make it easy for you to do self-care on the regular; it won't make your life harder or more complicated.
You will no longer abandon yourself spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, and financially. You will put yourself first and see your dreams come to realization before your very eyes! That’s what I call AN EXTRAORDINARY LIFE.
Being a high achieving go-getter myself, I’m known to work best with other high achieving go-getters, people who are committed to their success no matter what, who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to take to implement the 7 Self-care Secrets For Success system. My clients often tell me – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll do with me to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to have a Self-Care lifestyle for Success. You will be expected to leave your comfort zone and take action.
You will no longer abandon yourself spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, and financially. You will put yourself first and see your dreams come to realization before your very eyes! That’s what I call AN EXTRAORDINARY LIFE.
Being a high achieving go-getter myself, I’m known to work best with other high achieving go-getters, people who are committed to their success no matter what, who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to take to implement the 7 Self-care Secrets For Success system. My clients often tell me – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll do with me to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to have a Self-Care lifestyle for Success. You will be expected to leave your comfort zone and take action.
What type of client will you not accept?
1) I do not work with women who make excuses and have victim mentality. I only work with women who take 100% responsibility for their lives.
2) I do not work with women do not support themselves financially and do not make their own financial decisions. I only work with women who are 100% resourceful and can make their own decisions.
3) Sorry, I do not work with anyone under the age of 18 at this time.
2) I do not work with women do not support themselves financially and do not make their own financial decisions. I only work with women who are 100% resourceful and can make their own decisions.
3) Sorry, I do not work with anyone under the age of 18 at this time.
What exactly is the 7 Self-Care Secrets For Success system and what does it include?
The 7 Self-Care Secrets For Success system extracts the gunk out of you spiritually, physically, and environmentally and fills you up with healthy self-care practices (spiritually, physically, and environmentally) that will attract more HEALTH, WEALTH, LOVE, AND JOY into your life.
Here’s what the System gets you to do:
Here’s what the System gets you to do:
Spiritual Fitness
Often times when we are not able to get ourselves up to do self-care, there are underlying spiritual reasons as to why. I show my clients spiritual exercises that help them to have breakthroughs in a matter of weeks that 10 years of therapy couldn't give me!
Sweep Out the Gunk!
When I learned the secrets on how to physically feel 10 years younger, this was a game changer for me. When we don't have energy, it is almost impossible to take the actions we need to take to improve our health, wealth, love, and joy pillars. When I share with you my secrets, your life will never be the same.
Slow Stretch
Another imperative component to feeling younger is to be agile. One of the main things that make people feel "old" is when they complain of feeling "stiff." I will teach you stretches that anyone can do, but in a way that feels luxurious and yummy! My easy but effective stretching routine is designed for INFLEXIBLE people. You will feel sooo good after becoming more limber.
Skin that Glows!
A lot of women try to look young and refreshed through makeup (i.e., concealing black circles); however, I believe in taking great care of our skin so that we really DO look young and refreshed naturally, and if we chose to put on make-up, the makeup will look even better on top of dewy rejuvenated skin!
Schedule It In
When we don't schedule it in, it won't happen, especially for survivors. I have literally tried 50 different types of planners and scheduling systems, but nothing has worked better for me than a special scheduling method I will teach you in the program that will actually help you to expand your time. You will have plenty of time for your self-care and everything else that you are doing now!
Satisfying Space
When we think of self-care, we might not necessarily think of beautifying the space around us, but environment plays a big role in how we feel on the day to day. We will come up with a vision for your space and create it so that you feel great everyday!
Seek Until You Find
This is a life-changing skill I will teach you that has helped me reach the level of success I am at now. I will teach you how to be resourceful and relentless in going after what you want. A lot of believers say, "Oh.. I'm just waiting on God to make my dreams come true." NO, we don't say that in my community! This is a cop-out answer. God is WAITING ON YOU!!! I teach you how to be relentlessly resourceful to go after everything that you want. You get to HAVE IT ALL.
Does this really work?
Yes! You will learn how to treasure yourself (See Praise & Testimonials)
What results can I expect?
Stop people-pleasing!
Learn how to tune into your feelings and desires and honor them!
- Get into your system that God really does care about the desires of your heart! He put them there!
Create a vision board like you never have before that will get you motivated to get up every morning!
Learn how to expand your time and fit in self-care easily!
Develop an Attitude of Gratitude
Develop an Attitude of Gratitude
Learn healthy boundaries
Learn how to protect your energy
Learn how to honor your time
Learn how to respect yourself
Learn how to stop feeling insecure, worthless, and depressed QUICKLY!
Learn how to forgive people you couldn't forgive for many years
- Learn how to let go of resentment and feel lighter!
Feel and look younger! Learn how to have energy through the roof!
- Become your own best friend!
Learn to get out of triggers QUICKLY so they don't take you down
Learn how to repair relationships quickly
Learn how to be kind and gentle with yourself
- Learn how to enjoy taking care of your body temple
Know deep in your bones that you were created ON PURPOSE FOR A PURPOSE
- Have the energy to give back and make an IMPACT on the people you are supposed to help
What exactly does this coaching program include?
12 months of coaching with BoYee. Regularly share wins, get hot seat coaching, and share takeaways. Healing, powerful, and transformative! You will never be the same after this program!
Pocket coaching delivered directly into your inbox to help level up your mindset all year long.
Exclusive training on Self-Care Secrets you won't find in any other program.
Access to special pricing for VIP days, VIP half days, and other special events with BoYee!
How quickly can I expect results?
Most of my clients start to see and feel giant shifts just after one day of working with me. If you stay open-minded and stay coachable, anything is possible for you! After a year in my mastermind, you will be a totally different, upleveled woman. You will treasure yourself, respect yourself and you will attract respect around you. Your world will not look the same.
How can I guarantee myself that I will have Self-Care For Success, in record time?
Just jump in and do the work. Have high standards for yourself, and at the same time, be gentle with yourself. I teach you how to schedule in your work time and flex time in such a way where you will feel refreshed everyday. Self-care is QUEEN.
BoYee, based on everything I’ve read and heard about you, I know YOU are the one I want to learn from. What are my options for getting started with you?
I am selective with who I choose to coach and who I choose to put into my masterminds. I intend to keep my masterminds at a high level. To apply to join my I AM TREASURE coaching program, click the button below to schedule a 30-minute Clarity Call with me to see if you get accepted into the program. If you are not accepted at this time, you may reapply in the future.
