What's the name of your ecourse program?
Laser-beam focused in 30 Days (Overcome Procrastination and Distractions)
How long have you been doing what you do, and how did you become a mentor who helps women overcome nervous breakdowns?
I have gone through a tremendous amount of severe abuse in my childhood and adult life including child sexual abuse, childhood rape, narcissistic abuse, financial abuse, emotional abuse, verbal abuse, physical abuse, and spiritual abuse. I even witnessed my mother's suicide attempt before my very eyes at age 28. A few days after this, her organs failed and she passed away. Because I went through many years of severe abuse and trauma, when I was an adult, I suffered from stress, anxiety, depression, panic attacks, nervous breakdowns, and burn out. I did not have good boundaries, and I kept attracting toxic people and toxic situations in my life.
I hit my rock bottom at age 29 when I was nearly homeless. At this time, I gave my life to Jesus, which was a cause for huge celebration. However, many things in my life were worse than ever. I was completely drained from leaving my 10th toxic boyfriend, emotionally and financially. He was a 40-year-old man living with his mom. I gave him all my money (actually, my mother’s $12,000 cash inheritance she left me after she died), supporting him with food, his gas, his truck insurance, and paying for all our dates. He was another narcissist, happy to drain every last ounce of energy from me.
How did I get with yet ANOTHER boyfriend like this? I had read countless books and studied profusely on the topics of codependency, narcissism, love addiction, attachment styles, dating and attraction, healing from trauma. How did I miss the signs again? Embarrassed and broken, I found myself nearly homeless again at age 29, staying with hospitable friends.
Every penny of what my mom left me was gone. GONE, GONE, GONE. I had given all her money away to my undeserving boyfriends - what a way to dishonor her! This was the defining moment in my life that I shall NEVER EVER have poor boundaries again. I never wanted to get hurt by a man again. I never wanted to get hurt by people again. And I never wanted to get hurt financially ever again. I wanted to have a life FULL OF LOVE FROM GOD, FAMILY, FRIENDS, AND MY FUTURE HUSBAND. I was going to do WHATEVER IT TOOK to get this and NOTHING was going to stop me.
I interviewed over 50 therapists in Northern California, tested some out in person, and fired all of them, minus one. I kept the amazing Christian brainspotting therapist whom I saw twice a week. I joined eight 12-step groups, went to meetings in person and on the phone AROUND THE CLOCK, 7 days a week. I hired several top relationship and financial coaches from around the world and had powerful, weekly meetings with them, getting rid of blocks that used to hold me back for years within hours. I even had 2am emergency sessions with my international coaches at times when I was going through emotional turmoil and needed to work through it.
I drove to numerous churches and picked sound pastors to learn from them, having 3-hour meetings with the best ones on a weekly basis. I even went through an intense 9-hour deliverance to clear out any demons that might have been oppressing me and my family line. After this deliverance, I developed strong daily spiritual habits to stay spiritually fit and to win every spiritual battle from that day forward. Demons FEAR THE BLOOD OF JESUS on me now.
My life shifted quickly. I found myself renting a gorgeous room in a million-dollar home in Northern California. Then, my amazing husband came into my life and married me in a month, after only 3 breathtaking dates. He loves me, adores me, spoils me, and makes my laugh hysterically! My toxic friends left my life and three powerful God-fearing Christian women became my closest friends. My little brother who stopped talking to me for 6 years is now back in my life and he is such a blessing to me! And my once unpresent dad is now ultra supportive of my dreams and absolutely loves my husband. I ONLY have loving and supportive people in my life now. I am beyond blessed.
With the help of God, I cleaned up my past and started teaching women how they can do the same: I watched them set powerful boundaries with courage to keep LOVE in and toxicity out too! I have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping other women do whatever it takes to receive overwhelming love from God and loved ones beyond their wildest dreams.
Since then, I’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of countless groups and churches: I lived my dream of setting powerful boundaries fearlessly and experiencing out-of-this-world love through God, family, friends, and my husband; and I have created the I Believe In Love Again™ mentorship programs, including this ecourse "Peace and Serenity in 30 Days (Overcome Nervous Breakdowns)" ecourse.
Who are your clients?
I work with women who are sick and tired of being sick and tired. They are ready for PEACE and SERENITY now! My mentees include (but are not limited to):
What makes you different from other coaches?
First of all, technically, I am NOT a coach. I am a mentor.
Oftentimes, the words mentor and coach are used interchangeably, however, there is a big difference between a mentor and a coach. A mentor has great life experience and triumph in the very area that the client wants help in, and because of this commonality, trust is formed. Versus, a coach is not required to have any life experience in the area the client wants help in. A mentor directly advises their client based on their knowledge of what pitfalls to avoid and what tools and resources to utilize for best results, versus a coach does not share their own advice or opinions. Instead, a coach encourages their client to find their own solution. Mentors and coaches are equally valuable. They are just different.
So to answer your question, what makes me different from other "coaches" is that failing to find love was not an option for me. Without it, I was going to die. Overwhelming, out-of-this world love was the only thing that could heal me from the severe emotional, sexual, and financial abuse I went through. So I searched for it until I found it in Jesus. From that point forward, God showed me how to slay demons and implement powerful boundaries in a systematic way to keep love in and toxicity out!
I went through real-life, severe trauma for many years of my life and found a way to completely heal, thrive, and live my God-given dreams. Because I lived it, I am able to teach my clients how to take the same steps I took and potentially get results even faster than I got. Also, I know pain and trauma like the back of my hand. I know how my clients feel, how they think, and why they behave the way that they do. My clients trust me because they know I have gone through the FIRE, and because I am so open about my story with the world, they know that I don't judge them. They often tell me I help them way more than their therapist ever did.
I’m concerned with how to your stress levels DOWN and your coping mechanisms SOLID so that you can have peace and serenity ASAP!
I don’t beat around the bush or waste time. I am known for giving my clients invaluable information that helps them transform quickly with "gentle love" and also a healthy dose of "tough love." You will learn the TRUTH about what’s been standing in the way of you having PEACE and SERENITY now.
What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?
The I Believe In Love Again™ workshops, products and programs were created for people who are absolutely excited and dead serious about breaking out of their toxic cycle, breaking through resistance, receiving extraordinary love and ending what I call “oh no, not again syndrome” – it means not beating yourself up anymore saying: “Why am I going through ANOTHER NERVOUS BREAKDOWN???” They were created for you to put systems in place to have PEACE and SERENITY quickly, learning how to decrease stress and learn effective coping mechanisms.
Being a high achieving go-getter myself, I’m known to work best with other high achieving go-getters, people who are committed to their success no matter what, who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to have PEACE and SERENITY now!
My clients often tell me – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll do with me to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to have PEACE and SERENITY and to overcome stress, anxiety, and nervous breakdowns. You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal: PEACE and SERENITY in 30 days.
What type of client will you not accept?
1) I do not work with women who make excuses. They say they want change in their life, but aren't willing to do whatever it takes to get it.
2) I do not work with women who do not take 100% responsibility for what shows up in their life now as an adult.
I hit my rock bottom at age 29 when I was nearly homeless. At this time, I gave my life to Jesus, which was a cause for huge celebration. However, many things in my life were worse than ever. I was completely drained from leaving my 10th toxic boyfriend, emotionally and financially. He was a 40-year-old man living with his mom. I gave him all my money (actually, my mother’s $12,000 cash inheritance she left me after she died), supporting him with food, his gas, his truck insurance, and paying for all our dates. He was another narcissist, happy to drain every last ounce of energy from me.
How did I get with yet ANOTHER boyfriend like this? I had read countless books and studied profusely on the topics of codependency, narcissism, love addiction, attachment styles, dating and attraction, healing from trauma. How did I miss the signs again? Embarrassed and broken, I found myself nearly homeless again at age 29, staying with hospitable friends.
Every penny of what my mom left me was gone. GONE, GONE, GONE. I had given all her money away to my undeserving boyfriends - what a way to dishonor her! This was the defining moment in my life that I shall NEVER EVER have poor boundaries again. I never wanted to get hurt by a man again. I never wanted to get hurt by people again. And I never wanted to get hurt financially ever again. I wanted to have a life FULL OF LOVE FROM GOD, FAMILY, FRIENDS, AND MY FUTURE HUSBAND. I was going to do WHATEVER IT TOOK to get this and NOTHING was going to stop me.
I interviewed over 50 therapists in Northern California, tested some out in person, and fired all of them, minus one. I kept the amazing Christian brainspotting therapist whom I saw twice a week. I joined eight 12-step groups, went to meetings in person and on the phone AROUND THE CLOCK, 7 days a week. I hired several top relationship and financial coaches from around the world and had powerful, weekly meetings with them, getting rid of blocks that used to hold me back for years within hours. I even had 2am emergency sessions with my international coaches at times when I was going through emotional turmoil and needed to work through it.
I drove to numerous churches and picked sound pastors to learn from them, having 3-hour meetings with the best ones on a weekly basis. I even went through an intense 9-hour deliverance to clear out any demons that might have been oppressing me and my family line. After this deliverance, I developed strong daily spiritual habits to stay spiritually fit and to win every spiritual battle from that day forward. Demons FEAR THE BLOOD OF JESUS on me now.
My life shifted quickly. I found myself renting a gorgeous room in a million-dollar home in Northern California. Then, my amazing husband came into my life and married me in a month, after only 3 breathtaking dates. He loves me, adores me, spoils me, and makes my laugh hysterically! My toxic friends left my life and three powerful God-fearing Christian women became my closest friends. My little brother who stopped talking to me for 6 years is now back in my life and he is such a blessing to me! And my once unpresent dad is now ultra supportive of my dreams and absolutely loves my husband. I ONLY have loving and supportive people in my life now. I am beyond blessed.
With the help of God, I cleaned up my past and started teaching women how they can do the same: I watched them set powerful boundaries with courage to keep LOVE in and toxicity out too! I have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping other women do whatever it takes to receive overwhelming love from God and loved ones beyond their wildest dreams.
Since then, I’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of countless groups and churches: I lived my dream of setting powerful boundaries fearlessly and experiencing out-of-this-world love through God, family, friends, and my husband; and I have created the I Believe In Love Again™ mentorship programs, including this ecourse "Peace and Serenity in 30 Days (Overcome Nervous Breakdowns)" ecourse.
Who are your clients?
I work with women who are sick and tired of being sick and tired. They are ready for PEACE and SERENITY now! My mentees include (but are not limited to):
- Survivors of abuse (sexual, physical, emotional, spiritual and or financial)
- Women with codependent tendencies
- Women with addictions (love addiction, sex addiction, etc)
- Survivors of trauma, PTSD, C-PTSD
- Women with unhealthy attachment styles
- Women who attract toxic, narcissistic men
- Women who are chronic people-pleasers and over-givers
- Women who try to fix, rescue, or change people (especially their boyfriend/husband)
- Perfectionists, over-achievers, women who afraid of failure
- Women who grew up in dysfunctional families
- Women who want only loving, supportive people in their lives, once and for all!
- Christians who want to strengthen their faith; the Prodigal child
- Ex-new agers and ex-atheists; women who are transitioning into Christianity
- Women who are want to have a relationship with Jesus but don't know how to start
- Women who want love from God, family, friends, and husband!
- Women who want to keep loving people in and toxic people out!
- Women who want peace and serenity now!
What makes you different from other coaches?
First of all, technically, I am NOT a coach. I am a mentor.
Oftentimes, the words mentor and coach are used interchangeably, however, there is a big difference between a mentor and a coach. A mentor has great life experience and triumph in the very area that the client wants help in, and because of this commonality, trust is formed. Versus, a coach is not required to have any life experience in the area the client wants help in. A mentor directly advises their client based on their knowledge of what pitfalls to avoid and what tools and resources to utilize for best results, versus a coach does not share their own advice or opinions. Instead, a coach encourages their client to find their own solution. Mentors and coaches are equally valuable. They are just different.
So to answer your question, what makes me different from other "coaches" is that failing to find love was not an option for me. Without it, I was going to die. Overwhelming, out-of-this world love was the only thing that could heal me from the severe emotional, sexual, and financial abuse I went through. So I searched for it until I found it in Jesus. From that point forward, God showed me how to slay demons and implement powerful boundaries in a systematic way to keep love in and toxicity out!
I went through real-life, severe trauma for many years of my life and found a way to completely heal, thrive, and live my God-given dreams. Because I lived it, I am able to teach my clients how to take the same steps I took and potentially get results even faster than I got. Also, I know pain and trauma like the back of my hand. I know how my clients feel, how they think, and why they behave the way that they do. My clients trust me because they know I have gone through the FIRE, and because I am so open about my story with the world, they know that I don't judge them. They often tell me I help them way more than their therapist ever did.
I’m concerned with how to your stress levels DOWN and your coping mechanisms SOLID so that you can have peace and serenity ASAP!
I don’t beat around the bush or waste time. I am known for giving my clients invaluable information that helps them transform quickly with "gentle love" and also a healthy dose of "tough love." You will learn the TRUTH about what’s been standing in the way of you having PEACE and SERENITY now.
What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?
The I Believe In Love Again™ workshops, products and programs were created for people who are absolutely excited and dead serious about breaking out of their toxic cycle, breaking through resistance, receiving extraordinary love and ending what I call “oh no, not again syndrome” – it means not beating yourself up anymore saying: “Why am I going through ANOTHER NERVOUS BREAKDOWN???” They were created for you to put systems in place to have PEACE and SERENITY quickly, learning how to decrease stress and learn effective coping mechanisms.
Being a high achieving go-getter myself, I’m known to work best with other high achieving go-getters, people who are committed to their success no matter what, who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to have PEACE and SERENITY now!
My clients often tell me – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll do with me to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to have PEACE and SERENITY and to overcome stress, anxiety, and nervous breakdowns. You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal: PEACE and SERENITY in 30 days.
What type of client will you not accept?
1) I do not work with women who make excuses. They say they want change in their life, but aren't willing to do whatever it takes to get it.
2) I do not work with women who do not take 100% responsibility for what shows up in their life now as an adult.
What exactly do I get in this 30-Day ecourse?
4 POWERFUL videos that give you the EXACT STEPS on what to do to overcome stress, anxiety, and nervous breakdowns that you can keep FOREVER!
4 POWERFUL Lovework assignments designed to give you the breakthroughs that you need!
6 PRIVATE 1-on-1 (30 min) calls with BoYee to get customized help for your personal problems! (You get a "welcome" call, 4 module calls, and a "congratulations/next steps" call) - THIS SPECIAL IS ONLY AVAILABLE TO THE NEXT 2 MENTEES. This ecourse will NOT include calls in the future.
Say goodbye to nervous break-downs! You will have numerous tools in your tool box to help you return to a Relaxed and Worry-free state quickly no matter what is going on in your life. You will have practical knowledge on how to have Peace and Serenity for the rest of your life!
