What is the name of your mentorship program?
I Believe In Love Again™ mentorship program
What is the name of the system you use to help your mentees get to the result of believing in love again?
Boundaries for Boundless Love™ system
How long have you been doing what you do, and how did you become the "I Believe in Love Again" mentor?
To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment, and a resulting “compelling story”, that brought me to where I am today – mentoring women like you on exactly what to do to have powerful boundaries to keep Boundless Love in always and forever (from God and self). That defining moment in my life happened in the Winter of 2017 when Jesus saved me and started to heal me from 8 years of childhood rape, molestation, emotional abuse, and financial abuse by a serial pedophile, my stepfather.
In my teens, I was an atheist. Certainly, there was no such thing as God in my mind. All I could foresee in my future was continuous rape by my stepfather until the day he died because he told me he would marry me after he had managed to kick my own mother out of the house and manipulate the court to grant him adoption of me and my younger brother. I was very passive back then, full of fear and didn’t question him.
When I finally had the courage to run away at age 19, I got heavily involved in the New Age world, becoming a yoga teacher and a Reiki practitioner. In my 20s, I experienced toxic relationship after toxic relationship. I was never single. I was super codependent and often attracted narcissists. After I came to Jesus, I got married at age 30 to my husband, with high hopes of perfect love, but quickly realized that marriage is a trigger-fest, and my husband was not the solution to my lack of self-worth, like I had hoped. My husband is a sweet man, but he could never fill up my “love tank.” The love he gave me was never enough for me because I had a deeper problem, which was caused by years of ongoing trauma.
I needed spiritual surgery through spiritual warfare and true healing through God’s perfect Love. When I finally realized Boundless Love could only come from leaning on God’s perfect love and from me not abandoning myself, everything changed. I realized it was my responsibility to take care of my own needs spiritually, physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially.
Because of the enmeshed incestual relationship I had with my stepfather, I had to relearn what healthy boundaries were with all relationships in my life including boundaries with predators/abusers, ex-boyfriends, roommates, friends, family, husband, in-laws, my husband’s friends, clients, employers, colleagues, co-workers, coaches, therapists, neighbors, acquaintances, strangers, online haters, and myself.
Having boundaries felt like the most “unnatural” thing to me. Every step of learning boundaries was hard for me. But because self-worth and boundaries were the very things that were DESTROYED by the abuse I experienced, these were the VERY things I focused on healing through the grace and power of God.
Without boundaries, we can never ever live our God-given dreams. It would literally be IMPOSSIBLE. Boundaries are not a mechanism to keep people out in a mean way. Boundaries enable us to keep abundant love and energy in our bubbles to utilize towards God’s will for our lives to the fullest. And there is NOTHING more important in the world than to live God’s will to the fullest everyday.
I thank God for healing from 8 years of rape and molestation. Since becoming a new creature in Jesus Christ, I’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of countless groups and churches: I am living my dream of setting powerful boundaries and experiencing out-of-this-world Love, and I have created the I Believe In Love Again™ mentorship program, a series of 10 boundary-setting steps every female survivor of abuse needs to HAVE BOUNDLESS LOVE once and for all, in record time!
In my teens, I was an atheist. Certainly, there was no such thing as God in my mind. All I could foresee in my future was continuous rape by my stepfather until the day he died because he told me he would marry me after he had managed to kick my own mother out of the house and manipulate the court to grant him adoption of me and my younger brother. I was very passive back then, full of fear and didn’t question him.
When I finally had the courage to run away at age 19, I got heavily involved in the New Age world, becoming a yoga teacher and a Reiki practitioner. In my 20s, I experienced toxic relationship after toxic relationship. I was never single. I was super codependent and often attracted narcissists. After I came to Jesus, I got married at age 30 to my husband, with high hopes of perfect love, but quickly realized that marriage is a trigger-fest, and my husband was not the solution to my lack of self-worth, like I had hoped. My husband is a sweet man, but he could never fill up my “love tank.” The love he gave me was never enough for me because I had a deeper problem, which was caused by years of ongoing trauma.
I needed spiritual surgery through spiritual warfare and true healing through God’s perfect Love. When I finally realized Boundless Love could only come from leaning on God’s perfect love and from me not abandoning myself, everything changed. I realized it was my responsibility to take care of my own needs spiritually, physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially.
Because of the enmeshed incestual relationship I had with my stepfather, I had to relearn what healthy boundaries were with all relationships in my life including boundaries with predators/abusers, ex-boyfriends, roommates, friends, family, husband, in-laws, my husband’s friends, clients, employers, colleagues, co-workers, coaches, therapists, neighbors, acquaintances, strangers, online haters, and myself.
Having boundaries felt like the most “unnatural” thing to me. Every step of learning boundaries was hard for me. But because self-worth and boundaries were the very things that were DESTROYED by the abuse I experienced, these were the VERY things I focused on healing through the grace and power of God.
Without boundaries, we can never ever live our God-given dreams. It would literally be IMPOSSIBLE. Boundaries are not a mechanism to keep people out in a mean way. Boundaries enable us to keep abundant love and energy in our bubbles to utilize towards God’s will for our lives to the fullest. And there is NOTHING more important in the world than to live God’s will to the fullest everyday.
I thank God for healing from 8 years of rape and molestation. Since becoming a new creature in Jesus Christ, I’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of countless groups and churches: I am living my dream of setting powerful boundaries and experiencing out-of-this-world Love, and I have created the I Believe In Love Again™ mentorship program, a series of 10 boundary-setting steps every female survivor of abuse needs to HAVE BOUNDLESS LOVE once and for all, in record time!
Who are your clients?
I work with women who are sick and tired of being sick and tired. They are ready for Boundless Love now! My mentees include (but are not limited to):
- Survivors of abuse (sexual, physical, emotional, spiritual and or financial)
- "Strong" women who seem to have it all together on the outside, but still attract toxic relationships
- Women entrepreneurs who struggle with toxic relationships (and tend to give their money away to men)
- Women with codependent tendencies
- Women with addictions (love addiction, sex addiction, etc)
- Survivors of trauma, PTSD, C-PTSD
- Women with unhealthy attachment styles
- Women who attract toxic, narcissistic men
- Women who are chronic people-pleasers and over-givers
- Women who try to fix, rescue, or change people (especially their boyfriend/husband)
- Perfectionists, over-achievers, women who are afraid of failure
- Women who grew up in dysfunctional families
- Women who want only loving, supportive people in their lives, once and for all!
- Women who want to have a relationship with Jesus but don't know how to start
- Ex-new agers and ex-atheists; women who are interested in Christianity
- Christians who want to strengthen their faith and walk with Jesus
- Women who want love from God, family, friends, and husband!
- Women who want to keep loving people in and toxic people out!
- Women who want Boundless Love!
What makes you different from other coaches?
First of all, technically, I am NOT a coach. I am a mentor.
Oftentimes, the words mentor and coach are used interchangeably, however, there is a big difference between a mentor and a coach. A mentor has great life experience and triumph in the very area that the client wants help in, and because of this commonality, trust is formed. Versus, a coach is not required to have any life experience in the area the client wants help in. A mentor directly advises their client based on their knowledge of what pitfalls to avoid and what tools and resources to utilize for best results, versus a coach does not share their own advice or opinions. Instead, a coach encourages their client to find their own solution. Mentors and coaches are equally valuable. They are just different.
So to answer your question, what makes me different from other "coaches" is that failing to find Boundless Love was not an option for me. Without it, I was going to die. Overwhelming, out-of-this world love was the only thing that could heal me from the severe sexual, emotional, and financial abuse I went through. So I searched for it until what I asked for came to me- Jesus. From that point forward, God showed me how to slay demons and implement powerful boundaries in a powerful way to keep love in and toxicity out!
I went through real-life, severe trauma for many years of my life and found a way to completely heal, thrive, and live my God-given dreams. Because I lived it, I am able to teach my clients how to take the same steps I took and potentially get results even faster than I got. Also, I know pain and trauma like the back of my hand. I know how my clients feel, how they think, and why they behave the way that they do. My clients trust me because they know I have gone through the FIRE, and because I am so open about my story with the world, they know that I don't judge them. They often tell me I help them way more than their therapist ever did.
I’m concerned with how to get YOUR boundaries INTUITIVE and STRONG - to help you get CONFIDENT on setting (and enforcing) boundaries ASAP so you can keep love in and toxicity out, which will finally give you the ENERGY to pursue your God-given dreams!
I don’t beat around the bush or waste time. I am known for giving my clients invaluable information that helps them transform quickly with "gentle love" and also a healthy dose of "tough love." You will learn the TRUTH about what’s been standing in the way of you receiving Boundless Love from God and how to get rid of that block FAST so you can start getting results in record time. There is no need to suffer anymore for as long as you have been.
Oftentimes, the words mentor and coach are used interchangeably, however, there is a big difference between a mentor and a coach. A mentor has great life experience and triumph in the very area that the client wants help in, and because of this commonality, trust is formed. Versus, a coach is not required to have any life experience in the area the client wants help in. A mentor directly advises their client based on their knowledge of what pitfalls to avoid and what tools and resources to utilize for best results, versus a coach does not share their own advice or opinions. Instead, a coach encourages their client to find their own solution. Mentors and coaches are equally valuable. They are just different.
So to answer your question, what makes me different from other "coaches" is that failing to find Boundless Love was not an option for me. Without it, I was going to die. Overwhelming, out-of-this world love was the only thing that could heal me from the severe sexual, emotional, and financial abuse I went through. So I searched for it until what I asked for came to me- Jesus. From that point forward, God showed me how to slay demons and implement powerful boundaries in a powerful way to keep love in and toxicity out!
I went through real-life, severe trauma for many years of my life and found a way to completely heal, thrive, and live my God-given dreams. Because I lived it, I am able to teach my clients how to take the same steps I took and potentially get results even faster than I got. Also, I know pain and trauma like the back of my hand. I know how my clients feel, how they think, and why they behave the way that they do. My clients trust me because they know I have gone through the FIRE, and because I am so open about my story with the world, they know that I don't judge them. They often tell me I help them way more than their therapist ever did.
I’m concerned with how to get YOUR boundaries INTUITIVE and STRONG - to help you get CONFIDENT on setting (and enforcing) boundaries ASAP so you can keep love in and toxicity out, which will finally give you the ENERGY to pursue your God-given dreams!
I don’t beat around the bush or waste time. I am known for giving my clients invaluable information that helps them transform quickly with "gentle love" and also a healthy dose of "tough love." You will learn the TRUTH about what’s been standing in the way of you receiving Boundless Love from God and how to get rid of that block FAST so you can start getting results in record time. There is no need to suffer anymore for as long as you have been.
What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?
The I Believe In Love Again™ workshops, products and programs were created for women who are absolutely excited and serious about healing from their past, slaying all their demons, learning how to have powerful boundaries without guilt or shame, receiving Boundless Love and ending what I call “oh no, not again syndrome” – it means not beating yourself up anymore saying: “Why am I chasing love from yet another person and feeling so empty inside???” They were created for you to put systems in place within a few months (sometimes weeks), which will eventually lead you to gaining invaluable knowledge on different types of boundaries appropriate for different kinds of people, the confidence to implement powerful boundaries, and the amazing results from implementing such boundaries - boundless love from God and yourself (you will no longer abandon yourself spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, and financially). That’s what I call AN EXTRAORDINARY LIFE.
Being a high achieving go-getter myself, I’m known to work best with other high achieving go-getters, people who are committed to their success no matter what, who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to take to implement the Boundaries for Boundless Love™ system. My clients often tell me – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll do with me to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to have extraordinary boundaries to have Boundless Love. You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal: setting boundaries courageously and experiencing extraordinary love, consistently, and in record time!
Being a high achieving go-getter myself, I’m known to work best with other high achieving go-getters, people who are committed to their success no matter what, who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to take to implement the Boundaries for Boundless Love™ system. My clients often tell me – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll do with me to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to have extraordinary boundaries to have Boundless Love. You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal: setting boundaries courageously and experiencing extraordinary love, consistently, and in record time!
What type of client will you not accept?
1) I do not work with women who make excuses. They say they want change in their life, but aren't willing to do whatever it takes to get it.
2) I do not work with women who do not take 100% responsibility for what shows up in their life now as an adult.
2) I do not work with women who do not take 100% responsibility for what shows up in their life now as an adult.
What exactly is The Boundaries for Boundless Love™ system and what does it include?
Boundaries for Boundless Love™ system begins with understanding that your true value comes from being a rogal daughter of Our Most High King, Jesus Christ, understanding that God’s commandment to love others includes loving yourself too, setting powerful boundaries without shame or guilt to keep love in and toxicity out, and strengthening your receiving muscle so you can receive more and more love over time with joy and a feeling of safety.
Here’s what the System gets you to do:
Here’s what the System gets you to do:
Radical Spiritual Fitness & Cast Powerful Visions (in a Biblical Way)
We will begin with the most important step, the foundational step- to get right with God. “The Lord is far from the wicked, but He hears the prayers of the righteous” (Proverbs 15:29). Once you are right with God, then He will be able to hear and answer your prayers! “Therefore, I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours” (Mark 11:24). I will teach you all my secrets on how to stay spiritually fit and how to fight the daily spiritual battle successfully. Without being spiritually fit, you will never be able to receive Love abundantly. I will also teach you how to cast a visions in a powerful, God-pleasing way.
Assess Current Relationships and Daily Amends
We will assess your current key relationships and the health/toxicity level of each relationship. You can only experience Love fully when you are healthy and the people you are interacting with are healthy. I will teach you how to radically forgive everyone while maintaining healthy boundaries. You will learn how to make amends on a daily basis and communicate with people without fear. You will also learn how to distance yourself from unhealthy people and simply hold them with love and prayer from a distance. Also, I will teach you Truths on Codependency and Narcissism (that are not taught by mainstream codependency "experts") that will help you to recognize and escape this toxic cycle quickly!
Set & Enforce Boundaries
As you make amends and attempt to communicate your feelings, needs, and requests with people in your life, you will see that some people will respond to you positively, and others, negatively. I will help you identify if there were problems in your communication (and readjust your communication), or distance from people who are clearly spiritually sick. Setting and enforcing your new boundaries will take a lot of courage. I will teach you how to stay strong no matter how people react to you setting and enforcing boundaries. This takes tremendous strength, which you will get from God. “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13). I will teach you how to readjust your boundaries appropriately, as needed, to keep loving people in and toxic people out.
Best Friend Self-Talk
Do you talk to yourself like you are your own worst enemy or your own best friend? We will do an assessment to reveal your current beliefs about love and your self-worth. We will transform your depressing beliefs into empowering beliefs. You will have access to my personal list of my Holy Affirmations. I will teach you my powerful 5-column exercise that transforms lies into truths and helps you go from feeling depressed to empowered within MINUTES! With ample reprogramming, you will develop the habit of talking to yourself in a loving and supportive manner and become your own best friend with joy!
Honor Thy Temple
You teach people how to treat you. So how do you treat yourself? We will assess where your self-care routine is currently and then we will develop a self-care routine that feels good to you. I will also share with you the secrets you want to know of my personal self-care routine, which includes healthy eating, ballet stretches for beginners, self-massage, detoxing, and a skincare routine. I will teach you how to take care of your body, inside and out. You will eradicate guilt and shame for taking great care of yourself. Your self-worth will skyrocket in the name of Jesus and the types of people you will attract will dramatically change. Also, you will learn how to not get triggered or offended by others anymore and feel so confident in your own skin!
Secrets to Incredible Romance (in dating and in marriage)
The only relationship that is completely different than all other relationships is the Romantic Relationship, which is based on attraction and polarization. Most women are clueless on how attraction works and are clueless on how differently men and women want to receive love. Most women want to have the man of their dreams one day, but they do everything wrong in the dating world and are unable to attract that man. And even if a woman gets lucky and ends up marrying a good man, many women do everything wrong in the marriage and end up pushing him away. I will teach you how to attract high quality men into your life (if dating) and how to reignite the love in your marriage (if married) and how it is all connected to God’s Word. You will also learn how to stop being jealous, insecure, and needy.
Pray Making Specific Requests and Reverse Engineer Your Plans!
When you witness my Boundaries for Boundless Love™ system working in your life, your confidence will soar and your vision/dreams will expand! I will teach you how to upgrade your Vision Boards regularly. There is no limit to how much love you can receive! God promises you a spirit of Love, so trust Him! So there is no reason not to receive Love abundantly. You just have to train yourself to receive better, and this is what my system will help you with! Trust in the Lord! “For God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind” (2 Timothy 1:7). It is important to be specific when asking God for what you want. I will also teach you how to reverse-engineer your plans so that you can start taking daily action towards them!
Secrets to Massive Action Towards Your Dreams!
Having a vision and a plan is not enough. There are many demons that will do anything they can to delay, distract, and destroy you to prevent you from fulfilling your God-given assignments! Some common obstacles that get in the way of fulfilling dreams are fear of success, fear of failure, lack of wise counsel, lack of focus, and lack of discipline. What it comes down to is lack of spiritual boundaries, relational boundaries, and scheduling boundaries. I will teach you how to overcome these obstacles and more! I will also share with you my personal list of PAIN-firmations that light a fire under my butt to get going with taking action whenever I feel myself slacking.
Financial Reprogramming To Finance Your Dreams!
Many survivors of abuse have abundance blocks / money blocks due to programmed lies of low self-worth from childhood and common misunderstandings of God's word. We will blast away these lies with Biblical Truths about money, debt, savings, and profit. Also, I will teach you practical ways to be a good steward of what you currently have to allow room for you to receive more. Having a big dream is great, but without the resources to finance your dream, it is painful. Don't let your lack of money deter you from reaching your dreams! Apply Success Principles which are all from the Bible to steadily increase your cash flow (without shame or guilt) and use God's money to glorify His Kingdom!
Welcome Extraordinary Love Into Your Life & Continuous Celebration!
I will teach you how to track your Love Wins and celebrate yourself to increase your capacity to receive even more love into your life. You will feel SAFE and SECURE when receiving love and you will no longer sabotage love or run away from love anymore. You will feel DESERVING of love because you will realize you are clean and worthy in Jesus’ name! In addition to these 10 categories, you will learn COUNTLESS additional Boundaries for Boundless Love™ tips from your personal 1-to-1 coaching with me. These are the steps of the Boundaries for Boundless Love™ system I have created after working with many go-getter Christian women to keep extraordinary love in and toxicity out once and for all.
Does this really work?
Yes! The result of our work is an approach to shifting your mindset and your boundaries so that with time and consistency, you will be able to implement boundaries with confidence and welcome extraordinary love in and keep toxicity out once and for all! (See Praise & Testimonials)
What results can I expect?
Truly understand that everything in your life stems from what happens in the spirit realm first
- Become spiritually fit; become a spiritual warrior!
- Learn the truth of who you are according to God
Learn the promises of Love from God in the bible
Learn how to pray more effectively and discipline yourself to pray more
- Learn my personal Holy Affirmations and Love Affirmations that will change your life!
Learn how to apply different types of boundaries to different types of relationships
- Reprogram your idea of "boundaries" and realize it is not a bad word
Learn how to restore your relationship with God if your concepts of Him are distorted
Learn how to overcome triggers, offenses, and jealousy quickly!
Learn how to stop feeling insecure, worthless, and depressed QUICKLY!
- Learn how to do radical self-care like a Love Queen without any guilt
- Learn my secrets of my self-care routine
Feel and look younger! Increase your energy!
- Become your own best friend!
Learn the truth about codependency v. narcissism
Learn the truth about how attraction really works
Learn how to set boundaries with confidence and without guilt or shame
- Learn how to strengthen your receiving muscle and keep receiving more love!
Learn how to tap into your feelings to gauge immediately if something feels good to you or bad to you and whether or not you need to establish boundaries
- Learn a 5-column exercise that brings you from depressed to empowered within minutes!
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- Enjoy an abundant life full of love!
Expand your vision regularly and get used to having more love in your life!
- Feel safe, secure and relaxed while receiving love!
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- Stop self-sabotaging and running away from love
Feel joyous while receiving love!
Feel secure in God’s love for you
- Stop being insecure, needy, desperate, clingy, passive-aggressive, and controlling
Repel toxic people naturally
Have ONLY loving, supportive people in your life
Restore your belief in love ALL THE WAY
Know who you are- a dearly loved daughter of God with an amazing purpose here on Earth!
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Confidence, energy, and focus to go for your dreams!
How exactly is this 3-month mentorship program structured?
12 POWERFUL 1-on-1 sessions (120-min) with me, your personal I Believe In Love Again™ mentor, where you can ask me ANYTHING and I will TRAIN YOU to get the breakthroughs you need! These sessions will be recorded for you so you can have them forever.
POWERFUL, CUSTOMIZED Love Work (homework) to help you have the breakthroughs you need faster! You will SLAY demons in record time, have POWERFUL BOUNDARIES, and become unstoppable!
Silent Reflection phases to test how you are integrating the teachings of this program into your life. I take this data to customize the support that you need. You will learn how to stand on your own two feet!
Text correspondences with me for your burning questions, priority replies within 24 hours! You get priority over everyone else who is in contact with me.
Email correspondences with me for your burning questions, priority replies within 24 hours! You get priority over everyone else who is in contact with me.
How quickly can I expect results?
That depends on how quickly you can make those inner shifts. Some clients are ready to go and experience boundless love in a very short time frame, sometimes even a few weeks while others have a bit more work to do first. It also depends on how spiritually fit you are currently, if you take radical responsibility (or if you give your power to others), and how fearless you do things you may have never done before (e.g., powerful boundary-setting and maintenance).
How can I guarantee myself that I will have Boundaries for Boundless Love™, in record time?
Do all of your lovework. Be totally committed to your success. Understand that this is a process, a proven one, that works if you take action and implement all of the steps. All my clients who have diligently applied every step of The Boundaries for Boundless Love System learn to lean on the extraordinary Love from God and themselves. They do this in much less time than they would have on their own. Having the right mentor is invaluable!
BoYee, based on everything I’ve read and heard about you, I know YOU are the one I want to learn from. What are my options for getting started with you?
I take on a limited number of mentees per year to make sure I can give my full attention to each and every one of my mentees and help them get to their goals. I am selective with who I choose to mentor (she must take 100% responsibility for what shows up in her life). Please do not be disappointed if I do not choose you to become a mentee. For some people, they just need to do some extra work on themselves before they are ready to work with me. You are welcomed to reapply in the future if you are not initially selected.
To apply to join my I Believe In Love Again™ mentorship program, click on the button below to schedule a Clarity Call with me. During our call, we will go over all your questions you have about the program, your boundary and love goals for your near future, and if we are a good fit to work with each other. This call will help us to get CLEAR!
I look forward to speaking with you over the phone during our Clarity Call. Click the pink button below to find a time on my calendar to book your call NOW. Once I reach my max number of clients for the year, I will not offer any more spaces.
To apply to join my I Believe In Love Again™ mentorship program, click on the button below to schedule a Clarity Call with me. During our call, we will go over all your questions you have about the program, your boundary and love goals for your near future, and if we are a good fit to work with each other. This call will help us to get CLEAR!
I look forward to speaking with you over the phone during our Clarity Call. Click the pink button below to find a time on my calendar to book your call NOW. Once I reach my max number of clients for the year, I will not offer any more spaces.
