Mentorship with BoYee
1-year and 2-year programs available
IF YOU ARE A SURVIVOR OF ABUSE WHO TAKES 100% RESPONSIBILITY FOR CURRENT LIFE CIRCUMSTANCES AND ARE READY TO HEAL AND THRIVE NOW, APPLY BELOW TO RECEIVE TWO COMPLIMENTARY 1-HOUR SKYPE CALLS WITH BOYEE!
What is the difference between a mentor and a coach?
Often times, the words mentor and coach are used interchangeably, however, there is a big difference between a mentor and a coach. A mentor has great life experience and triumph in the very area that the client wants help in, and because of this commonality, trust is formed. Versus, a coach is not required to have any life experience in the area the client wants help in. A mentor directly advises their client based on their knowledge of what pitfalls to avoid and what tools and resources to utilize for best results, versus a coach does not share their own advice or opinions. Instead, a coach encourages their client to find their own solution. Mentoring is a long-term relationship and less formal (more organic) in nature in order to give room to address the ongoing, varying needs of the client. Verses, coaching is short-term, more formally structured, and task-oriented.
Mentoring and coaching are simply different. One is not better than the other. The definitions were provided above so that you have a clearer understanding of what service BoYee provides. BoYee offers mentorship to her clients, which is a long-term relationship based on trust, respect, and closeness so that BoYee can advise and direct her client in a way that will help her client heal and thrive in life by living her calling and sharing her gifts with the world.
Mentoring and coaching are simply different. One is not better than the other. The definitions were provided above so that you have a clearer understanding of what service BoYee provides. BoYee offers mentorship to her clients, which is a long-term relationship based on trust, respect, and closeness so that BoYee can advise and direct her client in a way that will help her client heal and thrive in life by living her calling and sharing her gifts with the world.
Save Yourself From Years of Pain and Suffering
Are you tired of feeling worthless and anxious? Are you tired of attracting narcissistic men into your life over and over again? Or perhaps you are tired of being in romantic relationship all together? Are you tired of sabotaging your success? Are you exhausted from people-pleasing? Are you sad that you sometimes feel that your sex appeal is your only value? Do you yearn to trust God, but find yourself lacking in faith from time to time? Are you afraid you will never do what God has called you to do?
If you answered yes to any of the above questions, it is no accident that you are on this page right now.
God is the ultimate healer. Only He can heal you through and through. However, having a strong faith-based mentor who has survived many years of child sexual abuse, narcissistic abuse, and financial abuse will help to accelerate your recovery journey. You will save yourself from needless additional years of pain and suffering when you walk with someone who knows what pitfalls to avoid and what the tools and resources are the best to utilize.
If you answered yes to any of the above questions, it is no accident that you are on this page right now.
God is the ultimate healer. Only He can heal you through and through. However, having a strong faith-based mentor who has survived many years of child sexual abuse, narcissistic abuse, and financial abuse will help to accelerate your recovery journey. You will save yourself from needless additional years of pain and suffering when you walk with someone who knows what pitfalls to avoid and what the tools and resources are the best to utilize.
What is Unique about BoYee's Approach to Mentoring?
Body Reprogramming
BoYee has a unique approach to helping her mentees heal and thrive. Being that she has been a ballerina for over 10 years and a fitness and mindfulness instructor for over 5 years, she incorporates movement and breath therapy into her mentorship practice. BoYee understands sexual abuse causes trauma to become lodged into the body. Talking about one's past is a good start, but it is not enough. Because trauma and violation happened to a survivor's body, the survivor must release the trauma from her body and reprogram her body to be empowered and healthy.
Instead of freezing, fighting, or flighting (common trauma responses), her mentees learn how to establish boundaries with their bodies to honor and protect themselves from danger. Her mentees also learn how to assume power poses to increase their confidence, self-esteem, and happiness levels and decrease their cortisol/stress levels.
Instead of freezing, fighting, or flighting (common trauma responses), her mentees learn how to establish boundaries with their bodies to honor and protect themselves from danger. Her mentees also learn how to assume power poses to increase their confidence, self-esteem, and happiness levels and decrease their cortisol/stress levels.
Communication Reprogramming
BoYee also incorporates communication and boundary reprogramming into her mentorship program. Once women are sexually abused as children, they often have a hard time speaking up about their feelings, needs, and requests in a healthy manner, and they often lack boundaries in their relationships. Because BoYee has had hundreds of hours of Non-Violent Communication training and practice, she teaches her mentees the much needed skill of how to communicate their truth and boundaries with grace and courage.
Her mentees learn how to implement boundaries in a healthy manner with their friends, family, acquaintances, strangers, coworkers, pastor and church brothers and sisters, bosses, colleagues, therapists, and romantic interests/husband.
Her mentees learn how to implement boundaries in a healthy manner with their friends, family, acquaintances, strangers, coworkers, pastor and church brothers and sisters, bosses, colleagues, therapists, and romantic interests/husband.
Spiritual Reprogramming
BoYee understands that it is very common for survivors to reject God. Many survivors find themselves attracted to the New Age world, atheism, agnosticism, the "goddess" movement, and Eastern philosophies because they present a "self-actualization" route to healing. This is appealing to many survivors (like it was for BoYee) because they want to take their healing into their hands and have "control." It is hard for them to trust Father God because trusting male figures in their past caused them tremendous pain and suffering. Some abusers even claim to be believers of God and twist the Bible to justify their sexual abuse to their victims, which causes tremendous damage to the victim's psyche.
Survivors often have trouble believing in Father God because they don't believe God/Jesus truly loves them. It is unfathomable for them to believe that anyone can love them unconditionally, especially a male figure. However, in order to truly heal, survivors must reprogram themselves spiritually and realize that God is not a reflection of the male abusers who abused them, and God did not "permit" the abuse to happen. Anything evil that happens to us is the Enemy's doing. It is important to reprogram ourselves spiritually to be able to separate truth from lies and become receptive to God's complete healing.
Survivors often have trouble believing in Father God because they don't believe God/Jesus truly loves them. It is unfathomable for them to believe that anyone can love them unconditionally, especially a male figure. However, in order to truly heal, survivors must reprogram themselves spiritually and realize that God is not a reflection of the male abusers who abused them, and God did not "permit" the abuse to happen. Anything evil that happens to us is the Enemy's doing. It is important to reprogram ourselves spiritually to be able to separate truth from lies and become receptive to God's complete healing.
Mindset Reprogramming
Last but not least, BoYee has developed an incredibly optimistic mindset. She teaches her mentees to become grateful, positive, and bold. Most survivors tend to be negative and think the worst of themselves and others, which in turn, makes their life experience more miserable than it needs to be. When her mentees change their mindset, they see that their lives quickly change for the better, and they are excited to keep living, for they have newfound hope for the future.
Highly Customized Guidance for Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
Expert help to guide you in the wisest direction so you can heal and thrive faster
Expert eyes to help you see your blind spots and weaknesses
Tools on how to handle triggers, flashbacks, nightmares, and boundary violations
Education & reprogramming on powerful boundary-setting
Education & reprogramming on your undeniable worth, your undeniable value
Education & reprogramming on re-parenting yourself
Education & reprogramming on how to find your calling
Faith-based motivation and accountability to reach your goals so you can live the vision that God gave you
How is This Mentorship Program Structured?
Powerful Weekly Calls (Skype or WhatsApp - Your Choice!)
Customized Love Work (homework) to help you have the breakthroughs you need faster
Unlimited Text Messaging Support and 1 Silent Reflection Week - You will get priority replies within 24 hours!
Qualifications to become BoYee's mentee
BoYee is not a licensed psychologist or health care professional and her services do not replace the care of psychologists or other healthcare professionals. Mentoring and coaching is in no way to be construed or substituted as psychological counseling or any other type of therapy or medical advice. BoYee does not diagnose mental health illnesses and she does not treat these illnesses.
BoYee only works with 100% functional mentees who take 100% responsibility for the current circumstances in their life and are willing to do whatever it takes to transform themselves and their lives. Mentoring is about transferring her skills to her mentee so that the mentee can model the accomplishments BoYee has made in her life in terms of body reprogramming, communication reprogramming, spiritual reprogramming, and mindset reprogramming.
If you are interested in receiving mentorship from BoYee, please fill out the form below to apply for a complimentary Clarity Call to see if you qualify to become one of BoYee's mentees. If you are not eligible to join BoYee's program the first time you apply, do not become disheartened, you can always apply again in the future.
BoYee only works with 100% functional mentees who take 100% responsibility for the current circumstances in their life and are willing to do whatever it takes to transform themselves and their lives. Mentoring is about transferring her skills to her mentee so that the mentee can model the accomplishments BoYee has made in her life in terms of body reprogramming, communication reprogramming, spiritual reprogramming, and mindset reprogramming.
If you are interested in receiving mentorship from BoYee, please fill out the form below to apply for a complimentary Clarity Call to see if you qualify to become one of BoYee's mentees. If you are not eligible to join BoYee's program the first time you apply, do not become disheartened, you can always apply again in the future.
