difference between coach and mentor?
Often times, the words mentor and coach are used interchangeably, however, there is a big difference between a mentor and a coach. A mentor has great life experience and triumph in the very area that the client wants help in, and because of this commonality, trust is formed. Versus, a coach is not required to have any life experience in the area the client wants help in. A mentor directly advises their client based on their knowledge of what pitfalls to avoid and what tools and resources to utilize for best results, versus a coach does not share their own advice or opinions. Instead, a coach encourages their client to find their own solution. Mentoring is a long-term relationship and less formal (more organic) in nature in order to give room to address the ongoing, varying needs of the client. Verses, coaching is short-term, more formally structured, and task-oriented.
Mentoring and coaching are simply different. One is not better than the other. The definitions were provided above so that you have a clearer understanding of what service BoYee provides. BoYee offers mentorship to her clients, which is a long-term relationship based on trust, respect, and closeness so that BoYee can advise and direct her client in a way that will help her client heal and thrive in life by living her calling and sharing her gifts with the world.
Often times, the words mentor and coach are used interchangeably, however, there is a big difference between a mentor and a coach. A mentor has great life experience and triumph in the very area that the client wants help in, and because of this commonality, trust is formed. Versus, a coach is not required to have any life experience in the area the client wants help in. A mentor directly advises their client based on their knowledge of what pitfalls to avoid and what tools and resources to utilize for best results, versus a coach does not share their own advice or opinions. Instead, a coach encourages their client to find their own solution. Mentoring is a long-term relationship and less formal (more organic) in nature in order to give room to address the ongoing, varying needs of the client. Verses, coaching is short-term, more formally structured, and task-oriented.
Mentoring and coaching are simply different. One is not better than the other. The definitions were provided above so that you have a clearer understanding of what service BoYee provides. BoYee offers mentorship to her clients, which is a long-term relationship based on trust, respect, and closeness so that BoYee can advise and direct her client in a way that will help her client heal and thrive in life by living her calling and sharing her gifts with the world.
Who is this program for?
BoYee's specialty is helping survivors who have been sexually abused as children, teens, and or adults. BoYee mentors survivors of all ages to a place of hope. When we have been abused sexually, this affects every part of us (mind, body, heart, and soul) in a very traumatic way. When these parts are not healed, we are in danger of becoming re-victimized in the future, we are in danger of attracting unhealthy/abusive relationships with our partners, we often close our hearts to God, we often self-sabotage our success, we often have trouble finding stability, we can have trouble with keeping a stable business or career, we experience debilitating feelings of loneliness, emptiness, and unworthiness, we often have burning anger towards family members, we often become sex and love addicts or sex and emotional anorexics, we have trouble feeling our feelings, we get triggered easily, we are haunted by flashbacks and nightmares, we develop a "disease to please" (codependency), and more.
Unfortunately, there are countless women and men who have experienced child sexual abuse. Although BoYee would love to be able to help everyone; she has found that her program is only effective for people who are 100% serious about taking action to help themselves.
Therefore, this program is only for mentees who are:
1) committed to DO WHAT IT TAKES to restore their faith in love again, and
2) feels called to receive BoYee's guidance and mentorship on restoring their their faith in love
This program is only for mentees who take 100% responsibility for the consequences of their actions (and inactions) in life and understand that in order to CHANGE their life, they MUST PUT IN THE WORK to reap the amazing benefits of this program. BoYee is not responsible for forcing her mentees to change. She is here to show them (with love) what to do (step by step) in order to heal.
If you become BoYee's mentee, BoYee will hold your hand all the way. All you need to do is take the steps. If you do, you can expect miracles to happen in your life. Healing, hope, and love can be restored through this amazing program!
Unfortunately, there are countless women and men who have experienced child sexual abuse. Although BoYee would love to be able to help everyone; she has found that her program is only effective for people who are 100% serious about taking action to help themselves.
Therefore, this program is only for mentees who are:
1) committed to DO WHAT IT TAKES to restore their faith in love again, and
2) feels called to receive BoYee's guidance and mentorship on restoring their their faith in love
This program is only for mentees who take 100% responsibility for the consequences of their actions (and inactions) in life and understand that in order to CHANGE their life, they MUST PUT IN THE WORK to reap the amazing benefits of this program. BoYee is not responsible for forcing her mentees to change. She is here to show them (with love) what to do (step by step) in order to heal.
If you become BoYee's mentee, BoYee will hold your hand all the way. All you need to do is take the steps. If you do, you can expect miracles to happen in your life. Healing, hope, and love can be restored through this amazing program!
How will my life change from taking this program?
I will let go of my past (no matter how traumatic it might have been)
I will expect MIRACLES to happen!
I will become a confident communicator of my boundaries and maintain them
I will reprogram my mind: replace the lies with empowering Truths
I will KNOW my value, and attract people who respect me
I will develop an "attitude of gratitude"
I will restore my relationship with myself
I will restore my relationship with God / Jesus Christ (the ultimate source of Love)
I will restore my relationship with family
I will restore relationship with friends
I will restore my powerful feminine energy
In dating, I will attract only gentlemen 
I will restore my relationship to health and wealth |
I will become an inspiration to others and help others heal!
What is the curriculum of the program?
The 6-Month "I Believe in Love Again" Mentorship Program is customized according to your specific needs. The following is a sample program. The following areas overlap every month, but you may have a focus per month if you would like:
MONTH 1: Restore relationship with God/Jesus and yourself!
Many survivors have blockages with God/Jesus Christ. It is important to clear these blockages because God is our foundation for recovery.
Many survivors feel low self-worth and have low self-confidence. Weak boundaries are common. You will learn to become stronger, more powerful, and wiser through God. You will learn to prioritize your health (healthy diet, exercise, and adequate rest).
MONTH 2: Restore relationship with Family and Friends!
Many survivors are angry towards some family members and may have difficulties in their friendships. This is understandable. Many survivors struggle with having healthy friendships. You will work on this with BoYee.
MONTH 3: Restore relationship with your Feminine Energy and Learn How to Date in an Empowered Way!
Many survivors go into their masculine energy when dating and end up getting hurt, over and over again. You will work on this with BoYee so you will no longer get hurt by men. You will learn how to become a powerful, confident woman who will attract high quality gentlemen.
MONTH 4: Learn How To Communicate In a Powerful Way and Help Others!
At this stage, you will start to help other survivors. Becoming a teacher will help you to instill knowledge into yourself better. Helping other survivors will help keep you alive on days you feel hopeless. You can be a public or anonymous author of your works. The important stage here is to start helping others.
MONTH 5: Organize and Build Your Finances, Fund Your Dreams!
Having a healthy relationship with money is important to your recovery. A lot of survivors don't feel worthy of having abundance. Any money blocks you might have will be reprogrammed. Money is simply a resource that can help fund your dreams! You will work on discovery and developing your talents and gifts from God!
MONTH 6: Get Even Bolder!
Many survivors hold back their Greatness due to feelings of unworthiness and shame. Any blockages you may have will be wiped away here! All the things we have been working on (relationship with God, love, health, wealth, happiness, helping others) will be strengthened and taken to the next level! BoYee will push you to realize your Greatness and to embrace it. Because at the end of the day, there's nothing to feel guilty about to unleash your Greatness. This is not about glorifying you, this is about glorifying God and doing His will to the fullest!
MONTH 1: Restore relationship with God/Jesus and yourself!
Many survivors have blockages with God/Jesus Christ. It is important to clear these blockages because God is our foundation for recovery.
Many survivors feel low self-worth and have low self-confidence. Weak boundaries are common. You will learn to become stronger, more powerful, and wiser through God. You will learn to prioritize your health (healthy diet, exercise, and adequate rest).
MONTH 2: Restore relationship with Family and Friends!
Many survivors are angry towards some family members and may have difficulties in their friendships. This is understandable. Many survivors struggle with having healthy friendships. You will work on this with BoYee.
MONTH 3: Restore relationship with your Feminine Energy and Learn How to Date in an Empowered Way!
Many survivors go into their masculine energy when dating and end up getting hurt, over and over again. You will work on this with BoYee so you will no longer get hurt by men. You will learn how to become a powerful, confident woman who will attract high quality gentlemen.
MONTH 4: Learn How To Communicate In a Powerful Way and Help Others!
At this stage, you will start to help other survivors. Becoming a teacher will help you to instill knowledge into yourself better. Helping other survivors will help keep you alive on days you feel hopeless. You can be a public or anonymous author of your works. The important stage here is to start helping others.
MONTH 5: Organize and Build Your Finances, Fund Your Dreams!
Having a healthy relationship with money is important to your recovery. A lot of survivors don't feel worthy of having abundance. Any money blocks you might have will be reprogrammed. Money is simply a resource that can help fund your dreams! You will work on discovery and developing your talents and gifts from God!
MONTH 6: Get Even Bolder!
Many survivors hold back their Greatness due to feelings of unworthiness and shame. Any blockages you may have will be wiped away here! All the things we have been working on (relationship with God, love, health, wealth, happiness, helping others) will be strengthened and taken to the next level! BoYee will push you to realize your Greatness and to embrace it. Because at the end of the day, there's nothing to feel guilty about to unleash your Greatness. This is not about glorifying you, this is about glorifying God and doing His will to the fullest!
What exactly do I get?
Unlimited Top Priority* Text messages with BoYee!!!
Unlimited Top Priority* Email correspondence with BoYee!!!
Customized "Lovework" assignments from BoYee to help you have the breakthroughs that you need
1 call per week with BoYee (1-hour long sessions)! Super powerful. You will go deep!
1 Week of "silent reflection" per month to integrate your learning and learn to trust God, your Ultimate Healer
Exceptional guidance on how to create your own platform to help other survivors
* Top Priority means BoYee responds to YOU before any of her thousands of viewers on her YouTube channel, other social media sites, and email. Many people have to wait several days or weeks before BoYee can respond to them. You will receive responses from BoYee THE SAME DAY and sometimes IMMEDIATELY.
How can I become a mentee of BoYee ?
Please apply below and BoYee will review your application. If you are potentially a good fit, you will receive a reply to set up a Clarity Call. If you are accepted to become a mentee, you can start the program from the date you enroll. It does not matter when in the month you begin. The program will end 6 months from the initial date of your enrollment. If you are not accepted into the program at this time, do not despair. You may reapply in the future.
