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(No space available in my program at this time. For a list of resources for survivors of sexual abuse, please email me at boyee@ibelieveinloveagain.com)
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"If someone like me who had shattered boundaries can learn how to have powerful, yet graceful boundaries, then SO CAN YOU!" - BoYee Sevilla
INTERVIEW WITH BOYEE TO ANSWER FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT HER 1-ON-1 COACHING PROGRAM FOR HIGH-ACHIEVING WOMEN

What is the name of your coaching program?

I Believe In Love Again​™ coaching program.  

What do you mean, BoYee, when you say "I believe in Love again"?

To me, when I say "I believe in Love again", what I mean by this is I believe in God's/Jesus' PERFECT LOVE for me.  I also believe in loving MYSELF and taking really good care of myself (spiritually, mentally, physically, and financially).  I especially love to take great care of my temple through stretching, dancing, and detoxing.

Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.  1 Corinthians 6:19-20

What is the name of the system you use to help your clients get to the result of believing in Love again?

Boundaries for Boundless Love​™ system

What does your life look like, BoYee?  Give me a snapshot.

I get to live a VERY BLESSED life living my dreams and help other high-achieving women do the same. 

Some of the amazing dreams I am living today as I continue to always up-level myself (through the power of God):

1)I get to coach amazing women around the world to have Boundaries for Boundless Love ~ beyond rewarding!

2) I get to have true health, wealth, love, and joy in Jesus Christ and inspire others they can have it all too!

3) I get to have loving, supportive people around me and keep a healthy distance from non-aligned people!

4) I get to enjoy beautiful relationships with my husband, close family, and close friends!

5) I get to live in the country on a 40-acre ranch with our four chickens and baby kitten "Night Light" (or "NyNy" for short)

6) I get to train in Vaganova ballet from incredible ballet masters ~ a dream come true for me. 
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7) I get to enjoy peace in my life thanks to having precious boundaries without shame or guilt.
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"First Day in Heaven"

Did your life always look like this, BoYee?

Most certainly not. 

What did your life used to look like? And how did you become the Boundaries for Boundless Love™ coach?

To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment that brought me to where I am today – coaching women like you to have Boundaries for Boundless Love.  From reading my story, you will see that if someone like me who had shattered boundaries can learn how to have powerful boundaries, then so can you.  I have been coaching clients since 2017 (the year I was given faith in Jesus Christ).

⚠️ Trigger Warning (my story includes descriptions of sexual abuse) ⚠️:
 
My stepfather molested and raped me for 8 years from age 11-19. He was a serial pedophile who planned to marry me. He destroyed many families before he got to mine. My mother was his sixth wife (we did not know this at the time).  

I was born and raised in Sacramento, California.  My stepfather was an expert manipulator. He wasn’t only able to convince everyone around him that he was a good father, he also convinced the California court system to grant him adoption of my younger brother and I, and convinced the courts to take my mother’s parental rights away. After he kicked our mother out of our house, he had full reign to molest and rape me. My life felt like a living nightmare, but on the outside no one could tell anything was wrong because I glued a smile on my face, and dissociated from my pain to survive.

He had a sick fantasy of wanting me to initiate sex with him, which I refused to do. When he got stressed out, he would hemorrhage and cough up tons of blood (because he had Hepatitis C) and he would blame me. He would tell me that I was selfish and cruel for not “taking care of his needs" as a man. I would feel terrible watching him bleed and suffer like that. In tears, I would tell him “sorry” but he would say sorry was not enough, that I had to perform a sensual dance for him.

So as a little girl, I would put on women’s lingerie, make-up (he taught me how to do my make-up), and his favorite perfume (Rapture by Victoria’s Secret). Every time I had to do this, my soul would die a little bit more.  
I was a ballerina, and he thoroughly exploited my gift from God. Before I would even get to the end of the song, dancing for him, he would take me to his room and proceed to rape me. 

At age 19, I ran away from home because my stepfather threatened to kill me (he discovered I had a boyfriend, which was not allowed since his plan was to marry me).  My stepfather went to prison, and passed away a few years later. 

In my twenties, I had a whirlwind of toxic boyfriends (because I was super toxic) and got into dangerous New Age practices like yoga, Reiki, tantra, etc (because I was trying to heal myself by myself).  I performed long-distance "Reiki healings" on people and could literally feel the pain in their bodies.  I was convinced I was a goddess and that I didn't need a "Jesus God" outside of me to "save me".  I even lived at a yoga ashram and encouraged women call themselves goddesses.  I used to call myself "the Goddess of Dance" and perform very seductive ballet dance pieces on stages.  I convinced myself I was "taking my power back" and integrating sex back into my life in the way I wanted to.  I thought I was living my life as a sexually-empowered woman.

At the of age 28, I was demonically attacked while living at the yoga ashram (demons were telling me to take my own life).  I never felt so frightened before in my life; I knew if I died, I would go straight to hell.  I knew my pathetic "Reiki powers" were not going to save me from this attack.  I called out to Jesus for the first time in my life, the demons vanished, and peace enveloped me like I had never felt before.  I was miraculously given faith in Jesus Christ.  Praise God!

Since Jesus came into my life, He has shown me the way to progressive healing and thriving.  It has not been an easy journey (there have been numerous things God has convicted me to change and continues to do so), but it has definitely been 100% worthwhile.

I used to attract very toxic people and toxic situations into my life ALL THE TIME.  But since learning the skillset of how to have powerful, yet graceful boundaries, my life has become significantly more peaceful filled with loving and supportive people and the time and energy to focus on living my dreams


God has taught me how to be rigorously honest with myself, He has taught me how to have boundaries (so that I can focus on doing His will in my life), He has taught me how to calm down from severe triggers (through Christ-centered Emotional Freedom Technique), and He has taught me how to take care my health through detoxing and stretching. 

I now get to teach other women how to have the same through my coaching practice.  I cannot tell you how rewarding it is for me to witness my clients go from boundary-less women to becoming women with graceful boundaries, which allows them to have more time and energy to dedicate towards their God-given dreams.

It seems counter-intuitive, but when we have healthy boundaries, this is how we welcome Boundless Love into our lives from God and ourselves.  Without boundaries, we do not protect our connection with God.  Without boundaries, we over-give to others and neglect ourselves.  Without boundaries, we wither away and never get to live our God-given dreams.  Without boundaries, we focus on pleasing people, and not pleasing God.  Without boundaries, we literally lose ourselves.

So what I teach in my program is Boundaries for Boundless love because I truly believe this is the most important thing to learn in life.  It is vital.

By the way,  God has helped me to return to the world of ballet so that I can focus on training my body for His glory through worship dance.  I cannot tell you how overjoyed I am to be dancing again, but this time, for the Lord!  The devil not only tried to destroy my gift of dance, he tried to take my life.  I am beyond grateful that God saved my physical life and has a place for me in heaven (John 14:2).

What God-given gifts of yours must you start protecting and developing with Boundaries?  God wants you to live your God-given dreams!  

​Who are your clients?

I work with women, 18 and over, who are sick and tired of being sick and tired.  They are ready for Boundless Love now.  My clients​ include (but are not limited to):
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  • Women who are ready to do whatever it takes to have Boundaries for Boundless Love
  • High-achieving women; women who expect excellence from themselves
  • Go-getter women
  • Women who strive to be number one
  • Women who want to be the best
  • Women who so don't want to be like the masses; women who want to live God's best
  • Women who have accomplished a lot already, but are ready to get to the "next level" in their lives

What makes you different from other coaches?

From the words of one of my clients.  She says, "BoYee, you are the best mentor in the world because of what you have overcome.  I have heard many renowned coaches speak on stages, but none of them compare to you because not one of them has said to me that they have overcome 8 years of childhood rape.  I tell everyone that I have the best coach in the world!"

This dear client of mine is so sweet and so appreciative; it was such a pleasure for me to work with her.  Please see my Testimonials Page if you'd like to read more reviews.  

But to answer your question, what makes me different than other coaches is probably my long history of severe abuse.  Many people tell me they are amazed that not only am I not a drug addict, a prostitute, or dead (which unfortunately, is a common outcome for people who have gone through such trials), but I am alive and well, joyfully living my dreams!  

My clients tell me they trust me because they know I have gone through the FIRE, and because I am so open about my story with the world, they feel comfortable opening up to me without feeling fear of being judged.  They often tell me I help them way more than their therapist ever did. 

I am passionate about getting you unblocked, untriggered, and gracefully boundaried so that you can stop people-pleasing and live your BEST LIFE!!
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I don’t beat around the bush or waste time.  I am known for giving my clients invaluable information that helps them transform deeply.  I am gentle but I also add a healthy dose of "tough love" when necessary.  You will learn the TRUTH about what’s been standing in the way of you having BOUNDARIES FOR BOUNDLESS LOVE NOW and how to have healthy boundaries in record time.  There is no need to be a people-pleaser and neglect yourself anymore for as long as you have been.

What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?

The I Believe In Love Again™ program was created for women who are absolutely excited and serious about learning how to have powerful boundaries without guilt or shame, receiving Boundless Love, and ending what I call the “oh no, not again syndrome” – it means not beating yourself up anymore saying: “Why am I putting others first and myself last yet again???”  This program was created for you to put systems in place within a few months (sometimes weeks), which will teach you invaluable knowledge on how to have appropriate boundaries different kinds of people and all kinds of situations.  You will no longer abandon yourself spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, and financially.  You will put yourself first (after God, of course) and see your dreams come to realization before your very eyes!  That’s what I call AN EXTRAORDINARY LIFE.
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Being a high achieving go-getter myself, I’m known to work best with other high achieving go-getters, people who are committed to their success no matter what, who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to take to implement the Boundaries for Boundless Love™ system.  My clients often tell me – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll do with me to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to have extraordinary boundaries to have Boundless Love. You will be expected to take serious and consistent action.  No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal: setting boundaries courageously and experiencing extraordinary love, consistently, and in record time!

What type of client will you not accept?

1) I do not work with women who make excuses.  They ​say they want change in their life, but aren't willing to do whatever it takes to get it.   

2) I do not work with women who are not able to support themselves financially and cannot make their own decisions.

3) Sorry, I do not work with anyone under the age of 18 at this time.

What exactly is The Boundaries for Boundless Love™ system and what does it include?

Boundaries for Boundless Love™ system begins with understanding that your true value comes from being a royal daughter of Our Most High King, Jesus Christ, understanding that God’s commandment to love others includes LOVING YOURSELF TOO, setting powerful boundaries without shame or guilt to keep love in and toxicity out, and strengthening your receiving muscle so you can receive more and more love over time with joy and a feeling of safety.

Here’s what the System gets you to do:
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 Emotional Intelligence

Emotional Intelligence is the ability to recognize, understand, and manage our own emotions.  When I first started to coach women, I realized that giving them all the best information on boundaries was NOT ENOUGH.  Although they had priceless information to help them get the results they desired, they were stuck in their triggers, limiting beliefs, and blocks.  That is why the MAIN EMPHASIS in this program is to train my clients​ to have emotional intelligence and emotional freedom.  I teach them how to go from any level 10 trigger (the worst trigger) to a level 0 (no trigger) within MINUTES through a method called Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) while saying Christ-centered statements I created for them.  To put it in a nutshell, my clients learn how to be UNBOTHERED; which is freedom!  Only when we are in a non-triggered, sane mental state can we implement any other part in this program!
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 Refining Vision

I teach my clients how to find their Identity, Calling, and current Assignments from God.  This is life-changing revelation that helps my clients have clear direction in life.  Along with knowing their purpose, I also teach my clients how to get a progressively clearer vision of what they want in any area of their life.  Lots of women know what they DON'T want, but instead of focusing on the negative, I teach my clients to put their energy towards creating a life they wish to live!  We get clear on all areas in our life including Health, Wealth, Love, and Joy.  Some people make only one vision board a year, but I personally make several vision boards per year.  I give myself the freedom to upgrade and refine elements to my vision at any time.  Instead of becoming rigid in who we want to become, it is more important to listen for and follow God's will for our life, which we do our best to capture and put up on a vision board where we see it often, so that we do not get distracted in this world full of distractions and temptations!  "Write the vision and make it plain" (Habakkuk 2:2).
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Powerful Boundaries

It is of utmost importance to protect your God-given dreams with POWERFUL BOUNDARIES.  It is vital to keep negative, distracting energy out and to keep supportive, inspiring energy in.  Otherwise, you will NEVER EVER have the energy to realize your God-given dreams.  I teach my clients how to say "no" gracefully to anyone and anything that does not align with their God-given dreams and to selectively and mindfully say "yes" to what does align.  My clients learn to replace any negative people on their TOP 10 list with positive, supportive people who LOVE seeing my clients succeed.  They also learn to stop complaining and cursing their own life, and instead, focus on being grateful and resourceful in order to reach their dreams.  My clients learn to stop fixing and rescuing people, and instead, put their energies into living their God-given dreams now to the fullest!  And best of all, they learn to do this without feeling guilty or ashamed!
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Effective Communication

Most of the time when there is disharmony in our relationships, it is because of miscommunication or "violent" communication (e.g., judging, criticizing, demanding, blaming, minimizing communication).  I teach my clients how to gracefully communicate with themselves and others.  How we communicate with ourselves is foundational.  Do you talk to yourself like you are your own best-friend or your own worst enemy?  I teach my clients to talk to themselves with love, which naturally trains them to talk to others with more compassion and understanding with others.  I teach my clients appropriate communication with different people in their lives (parents, spouse, in-laws, friends, family, bosses, co-workers, etc).  When it comes to communicating with our romantic partner, effective communication is based on a whole special set of guidelines.  I teach my clients how to communicate with their husbands in such a way to promote harmony.
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  Bible

I encourage my clients to read the Bible because in order to "believe in Love again," we must know what Love is, and Love is God/Jesus Christ.  We must know the CHARACTER of God.  Our God is a loving God.  He has plans to prosper us and to not harm us, but to give us hope and a future. (Jeremiah 29 :11).  When our days are rooted in the word and we live sober lives, we can truly heal our relationship with God and truly experience His Perfect Love.  Through Faith alone, we are saved by Jesus' blood.  What mercy He has on our souls.  Hallelujah!  "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." (John 3:16)
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 Holistic Self-Care (which stems from Self-Love)

When I talk about self-care, I am talking about taking great care of your mind, your body, your emotions, and your spirit!  Along with having a regular ballet/stretch routine, juicing, detoxing, cleansing, skin care, etc, I also make sure to get coaching and therapy for myself to continue my personal self-care journey.  Self-care includes making sure you are getting appropriate recovery for your addictions or co-addictions, if you have any.  Self-care could also mean going to Griefshare classes if you have lost a loved one.  Self-care is all about taking responsibility for yourself and taking CARE of your feelings, needs, and requests.  I teach my clients my self-care routine in depth in this program!
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 Time Tracking (Based on Values & Goals)​

I teach my clients how to create a time tracking system that incorporates their values and goals.  When people go on a diet, they often will track their calories.  When people get serious about paying off their debt, they often will start to track their money.  But why is it that when it comes to living our goals and dreams, we don't track our time?   I teach a system that not only helps my clients to get amazing clarity on how they spend their time, but I also teach them a reward system that provides the fuel for them to continue living their dreams with consistency and energy! 
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 Relaxing Back In Love

Many women have many struggles in their love life.  If my client is in the dating phase, I teach her how to "relax back in love" so that she stops attracting feminine men (receivers), and instead, attract masculine men (providers).  I teach Celibate Rotational Dating, the most empowering form of dating for women.  If my client is already married, I teach her how to "relax back in love" and stop trying to change, fix, rescue, or "mother" her husband.  "It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman." (Proverbs 21:19)  I teach my clients​ how to let go of control, and instead, lean on God and continue to have a healthy life of her own, separate from her husband.  When a woman learns how to depend on God's love and provision, this is how she truly has peace and freedom.
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​ Inspiring Environment

Surprisingly, environment shapes our behavior more than anything.  Here, we look at what is in my clients​' environment.  We remove what does not support her in creating her identity and we add to her environment what will help.  For example, if a client wants to focus on eating healthier, she will remove unhealthy foods and snacks from her home that will not support her in forming new healthy habits and adds attractive healthy foods to her kitchen to make it easier for her to make effective food choices.  We also take a close look at the company she keeps and make healthy adjustments.  We take a look at her home and office environment and declutter, organize, and beautify as needed!
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 Attitude of Gratitude!

It is so important to count our small wins and big wins every day!  I teach my clients​ to have an "Attitude of Gratitude."  When you develop this attitude, it will become natural to see the silver lining in everything, including in what looks like a "negative" or "bad" event.  "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28).  In addition to these 10 categories, you will learn COUNTLESS additional Boundaries for Boundless Love™ tips from your personal 1-to-1 coaching with me. These are the powerful, life-changing steps of the Boundaries for Boundless Love™ system I have created after seeing what seems to help me and my clients the most.

Does this really work?

Yes!  The result of our work is an approach to shifting your mindset and your boundaries so that with time and consistency, you will be able to implement boundaries with confidence and welcome extraordinary love in and keep toxicity out once and for all! (See Praise & Testimonials) 

What results can I expect?

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Truly understand that everything in your life stems from what happens in the spirit realm first

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  •  Become spiritually fit; become a spiritual warrior!

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  •  Learn the truth of who you are according to God

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 Learn the promises of Love from God in the bible

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 Learn how to pray more effectively and discipline yourself to pray more

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  • Learn my personal Holy Affirmations and Love Affirmations that will change your life!

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  • ​Learn how to apply different types of boundaries to different types of relationships


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  • Reprogram your idea of "boundaries" and realize it is not a bad word

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 Learn how to restore your relationship with God if your concepts of Him are distorted

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​Learn how to overcome triggers, offenses, and jealousy quickly!

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Learn how to stop feeling insecure, worthless, and depressed QUICKLY!

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  •  Learn how to do radical self-care like a Love Queen without any guilt

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  • Learn my secrets of my self-care routine

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  •  Feel and look younger!  Increase your energy!

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  •  Become your own best friend!

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  • ​ Learn the truth about codependency v. narcissism 


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​ Learn the truth about how attraction really works

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 Learn how to set boundaries with confidence and without guilt or shame

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  •  Learn how to strengthen your receiving muscle and keep receiving more love!

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  • ​ Learn how to tap into your feelings to gauge immediately if something feels good to you or bad to you and whether or not you need to establish boundaries

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  •  Enjoy an abundant life full of love!

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  • ​ Expand your vision regularly and get used to having more love in your life!


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  •  Feel safe, secure and relaxed while receiving love!

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  •  Stop self-sabotaging and running away from love

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  • ​ Feel joyous while receiving love!


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  • ​ Feel secure in God’s love for you


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  •  Stop being insecure, needy, desperate, clingy, passive-aggressive, and controlling

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  •  Repel toxic people naturally

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 Have ONLY loving, supportive people in your life

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​ Restore your belief in love ALL THE WAY

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 Know who you are- a dearly loved daughter of God with an amazing purpose here on Earth!

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     Confidence, energy, and focus to go for your dreams!

How exactly is this coaching program structured?

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3 months of private coaching in the I Believe in Love Again™  coaching program with BoYee - extremely healing, powerful, and transformative!  You will never be the same after this program!

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 12 private calls with me, your Boundaries for Boundless Love™ ​coach, where you can ask me ANYTHING and I will TRAIN YOU to get the breakthroughs you need!  These sessions will be recorded for you so you can have the replays forever.

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 POWERFUL Lovework (homework) to help you have the breakthroughs you need faster!  You will dissolve limiting beliefs, have POWERFUL BOUNDARIES, and become unstoppable in going for your God-given dreams!

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Text correspondences with me for your burning questions, priority replies within 24 hours!  You get priority over everyone else who is in contact with me. 

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 Email correspondences with me for your burning questions, priority replies within 24 hours!  You get priority over everyone else who is in contact with me. 

How quickly can I expect results?

That depends on how quickly you can make those inner shifts. Some clients are ready to go and experience boundless love in a very short time frame, sometimes even a few weeks while others have a bit more work to do first. It also depends on how spiritually fit you are currently, if you take radical responsibility (or if you give your power to others), and how fearless you do things you may have never done before (e.g., powerful boundary-setting and maintenance).

How can I guarantee myself that I will have Boundaries for Boundless Love™, in record time?

Do all of your lovework. Be totally committed to your success. Understand that this is a process, a proven one, that works if you take action and implement all of the steps. All my clients who have diligently applied every step of The Boundaries for Boundless Love System learn to lean on the extraordinary Love from God and themselves.  They do this in much less time than they would have on their own.  Having the right coach is invaluable!

BoYee, based on everything I’ve read and heard about you, I know YOU are the one I want to learn from. What are my options for getting started with you?

I take on a limited number of private clients per year to make sure I can give my full attention to each and every one of them and help them get to their goals.  I am selective with who I choose to coach (she must take 100% responsibility for what shows up in her life).   Please do not be disappointed if I do not choose you to become a client.  For some people, they just need to do some extra work on themselves before they are ready to work with me.  You are welcomed to reapply in the future if you are not initially selected. 

To apply to join my I Believe In Love Again™ coaching program, use the calendar below to schedule a Clarity Call with me.  During our call, we will go over all your questions you have about the program, your boundary and love goals for your near future, and if we are a good fit to work with each other.  This call will help us to get CLEAR! 

I look forward to speaking with you over the phone during our Clarity Call.  Click the pink button below to find a time on my calendar to book your call NOW.  Once I reach my max number of clients for the year, I will not offer any more spaces.
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​(No space available in my program at this time. For a list of resources for survivors of sexual abuse, please email me at boyee@ibelieveinloveagain.com)
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